then we are failing them educationally, but that doesnt mean they are not responsible for how they live their lives.
I hear you!! I changed careers at 40 and it was "awakening" starting at the bottom again. But it was definitely worth every sleepless night.
There is something to be said for just keeping your mouth shut until asked....
No, I have not.
I dont believe in luck, you do what you have to do get to the point you want to be. Usually that requires good decisions, and working hard.