Roddy McDowall
October 7th, 2009, 6:58 pm
Good friend or overbearing boss? Please. We're the crowd who knows how to spot a poorly worded poll. Tell her your position, tell it to her once, then let it go. You've turned it into a national topic to the point where there's no reason to think the family Wouldn't be embarassed.
It's not that people don't understand the friendly aspect of supporting someone bailing out, no doubt her family would support her in that situation as well - but using a national stage to constantly talk about her opt-out would be violently embarassing to me were I her fiancee, etc...
Yes yes yes, of course you support her decisions. Wow, bold. Just do it, don't preach about it to the whole nation when it's perhaps the most personal thing she'll ever face and now there's almost no way imaginable that she Won't be thinking about it as she's going down the aisle.
Which means she couldn't even trust that "little voice" if she heard it at this point, because she wouldn't know if it were genuine or just embarassment about how out of proportion the topic had gotten, or how out of place it is that it's a topic of national discussion at all.
Dude, Sean, maybe point out that you support her Either Way just one time, make sure She knows it (whether or not all of us do), and let it go at that. Acting like the family wouldn't support her in the same way or that they're wrong in being embarassed by how you're handling this is stupid. This lame circus of trying to prove your point that you think is too advanced for people to understand is like watching a car wreck, and keeping it up isn't making it better.
But hey, nice poll. *eyeroll*
SO! Do you think I'm being a friend to Sean by trying to keep him from embarassing himself and everyone around him, OR am I being a cannibal pediphile necropyrosatanist because I dare to understand his position And disagree with him at the same time?
Right, stupid poll.
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It's not that people don't understand the friendly aspect of supporting someone bailing out, no doubt her family would support her in that situation as well - but using a national stage to constantly talk about her opt-out would be violently embarassing to me were I her fiancee, etc...
Yes yes yes, of course you support her decisions. Wow, bold. Just do it, don't preach about it to the whole nation when it's perhaps the most personal thing she'll ever face and now there's almost no way imaginable that she Won't be thinking about it as she's going down the aisle.
Which means she couldn't even trust that "little voice" if she heard it at this point, because she wouldn't know if it were genuine or just embarassment about how out of proportion the topic had gotten, or how out of place it is that it's a topic of national discussion at all.
Dude, Sean, maybe point out that you support her Either Way just one time, make sure She knows it (whether or not all of us do), and let it go at that. Acting like the family wouldn't support her in the same way or that they're wrong in being embarassed by how you're handling this is stupid. This lame circus of trying to prove your point that you think is too advanced for people to understand is like watching a car wreck, and keeping it up isn't making it better.
But hey, nice poll. *eyeroll*
SO! Do you think I'm being a friend to Sean by trying to keep him from embarassing himself and everyone around him, OR am I being a cannibal pediphile necropyrosatanist because I dare to understand his position And disagree with him at the same time?
Right, stupid poll.
This thread will delete in 5...4...3...2...*poof*