My son Mitchell

[jwil59]

I would remind you that if Mitch's anger was due to brain damage he would be exhibiting it with his therapists and e-v-e-r-y-o-n-e-l-s-e too... and he is not.

Tough times for you all my friend, and I know I'm being tough too.. I'm tough on anger because I am the product of abuse

Anger was ALWAYS the reason given for the abuse. ALWAYS... and as an adult I absolutely refuse to let ANYONE take their anger out on me.. Anger is not a feeling - it is a reaction and if you want to talk about what is going on, fine, but dammit you do not have the RIGHT to take your reactions out on me.

So I'll say it again: If Mitch's anger is due to brain damage he would be exhibiting it with his therapists and every one else..

Get him diagnosed and get him some help...

We are trying to help him all we can, sometimes it seems like he don't want help, and other times it does. This is really starting to confuse me badly.

Thank you my friend

[jwil59]

Hello again Jeff,

Please check your Hannity PM's. I sent you an article from the Washington Brain Injury Association dealing with anger exhibited by those inflicted by a TBI.

I'm sure there are volumes written on this subject. This article is straight forward and may be of some help in Mitch's situation.

Be well my Friend,

Jim

Thanks for that buddy

[Election Watcher]

My friends I won't go into detail but the truth is we had a pretty rocky weekend at home with Mitch. He and Darlene actually went back to Atlanta a day early because of that. In the area of behavior, I think the main area that Mitch is having trouble with that is related to the injury is emotion control, specifically anger when things don't go his way. He is much much worse in this area since the injury. Your prayers would be much appreciated in that area.

Beside's that he is still progressing in his therapy. He pulled another muscle on Friday during therapy but before that his walking was really getting better. My wife said Thursday night he was walking almost normal, and was doing his best since the accident. Still no word on the insurance and the Botox injections and we are quickly running out of time. I would go crazy if not for knowing that God is in control, and knowing how his mercy has abounded since December 20th.

Thank you my dear friends.

Jeff

Continually, your family are in our prayers.
Be well.
EW

[rhet 2]

We are trying to help him all we can, sometimes it seems like he don't want help, and other times it does. This is really starting to confuse me badly.

Thank you my friend

Dear one, do try to relax a bit.

I know it's hard, but being confused and at a loss about what to do and how to respond is totally HUMAN.

And so is Mitch's own confusion.

The world got turned inside out and upside down for all three of you in a single instant.

Now, you all three have to find where the new boundary lines are laid -- build new relationship patterns -- and Mitch has to learn who he is, what is and is not permissible and constructive behaviors, all over again. And so do his parents, his friends, everyone who treasures him.

Any type of behavior modification that requires reshaping what used to be into new foundations for future growth is, by its very nature, destablizing and confusing and chaotic, at best.

He's trying out new role models, testing to see if X behavior is constructive or not, struggling to figure out how the injuries have affected his most significant relationships, struggling to find new ways of interacting with others.

And you're seeing his frustration when X doesn't work after all. And 90% of that is unconscious or barely aware decision making -- decisions and behaviors that Mitch alone can control. Control that can only increase by sheer gut-wrenching practice, like exercising emotional muscles to gain the same control that repeated trial and error and "Try It Again, Sam" gives us physical muscle control.

ALL human relationships are based on boundaries. X is acceptable behavior, Y is not, boundaries that were learned from infancy onward.

And those boundaries that existed before the Event that Shook the World shifted traumatically, changed, destabilized, got just as damaged as his body did -- suddenly and sharply instead of the usual gradual shifting and modifications that are part of living from birth to death.

YOUR normal patterns. Darlene's, too -- the damage was as psychologically damaging to you both as it was for Mitch in both body and in heart and mind.

Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome, dear brother. Three precious people subjected to PTSS at one and the same time.

All three of you have been through the worst trauma ever to hit the human psyche -- and it takes TIME and lots and lots of confused, chaotic, stressful trial and error before new patterns emerge to give you all three those new understandings required for the future.

And all you can do is try X to see if it works or not, then try X modified to the first degree to see if it gives a more positive result, and then try X modified to the second degree, go back to X sub 1, try X sub 3, dump X altogether and try Y instead -- trial and error modifications that occur gradually, and only through experience, only with due time and effort.

And trust that the LORD will give you the wisdom of Solomon in all that trying and failing and only partially succeeding behavior modification process.

There is one and only one stable, sure, never failing basis, though, for all that behavior modification. Those precious few behaviors approved in Scripture NEVER fail:

1) love one another even as Christ first loved you

2) greater love has no man than this, that he lay down his life for his fellow human beings

3) do unto others even as you would have them do unto you -- which is the exact opposite of giving into anger and frustration to explode at everyone around you.

Hold to the three foundations of Love, and surely you will see victory in the LORD's own good time -- because Mitch, too, in time, will gain experience in the practice of those three foundational behaviors.

And relax about the chaos and confusion. Totally normal human condition, for every last one of us. It's called "Not Yet Perfected in the Way of the LORD."

Key words: NOT YET

But you will be.

And so will your precious son.

Guarenteed.

Promise sealed by the Blood of the ONE.

Unbreakable contract.

Not yet, but will be perfect in due time.

Which guarentee includes Mitch.

:hug:

[doodle5]

You Darlene Mitch in my prayers!!

All of you still going through emotions of what to do next. You live one moment at a time with the LORD'S hand underneath you. That is the hardest part, I know I have been there.

Look to Jesus the author and finisher of our faith. Hebrews

Carlene

[agent_86]

He's a teen still, right?

That's gotta add to the overall difficulty.

I know that having non-major-injury-recovering teenagers tries my patience ALL THE TIME.

I feel for you, my friend. And I'm pulling for you.

[jwil59]

Continually, your family are in our prayers.
Be well.
EW

We appreciate that

[jwil59]

Dear one, do try to relax a bit.

I know it's hard, but being confused and at a loss about what to do and how to respond is totally HUMAN.

And so is Mitch's own confusion.

The world got turned inside out and upside down for all three of you in a single instant.

Now, you all three have to find where the new boundary lines are laid -- build new relationship patterns -- and Mitch has to learn who he is, what is and is not permissible and constructive behaviors, all over again. And so do his parents, his friends, everyone who treasures him.

Any type of behavior modification that requires reshaping what used to be into new foundations for future growth is, by its very nature, destablizing and confusing and chaotic, at best.

He's trying out new role models, testing to see if X behavior is constructive or not, struggling to figure out how the injuries have affected his most significant relationships, struggling to find new ways of interacting with others.

And you're seeing his frustration when X doesn't work after all. And 90% of that is unconscious or barely aware decision making -- decisions and behaviors that Mitch alone can control. Control that can only increase by sheer gut-wrenching practice, like exercising emotional muscles to gain the same control that repeated trial and error and "Try It Again, Sam" gives us physical muscle control.

ALL human relationships are based on boundaries. X is acceptable behavior, Y is not, boundaries that were learned from infancy onward.

And those boundaries that existed before the Event that Shook the World shifted traumatically, changed, destabilized, got just as damaged as his body did -- suddenly and sharply instead of the usual gradual shifting and modifications that are part of living from birth to death.

YOUR normal patterns. Darlene's, too -- the damage was as psychologically damaging to you both as it was for Mitch in both body and in heart and mind.

Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome, dear brother. Three precious people subjected to PTSS at one and the same time.

All three of you have been through the worst trauma ever to hit the human psyche -- and it takes TIME and lots and lots of confused, chaotic, stressful trial and error before new patterns emerge to give you all three those new understandings required for the future.

And all you can do is try X to see if it works or not, then try X modified to the first degree to see if it gives a more positive result, and then try X modified to the second degree, go back to X sub 1, try X sub 3, dump X altogether and try Y instead -- trial and error modifications that occur gradually, and only through experience, only with due time and effort.

And trust that the LORD will give you the wisdom of Solomon in all that trying and failing and only partially succeeding behavior modification process.

There is one and only one stable, sure, never failing basis, though, for all that behavior modification. Those precious few behaviors approved in Scripture NEVER fail:

1) love one another even as Christ first loved you

2) greater love has no man than this, that he lay down his life for his fellow human beings

3) do unto others even as you would have them do unto you -- which is the exact opposite of giving into anger and frustration to explode at everyone around you.

Hold to the three foundations of Love, and surely you will see victory in the LORD's own good time -- because Mitch, too, in time, will gain experience in the practice of those three foundational behaviors.

And relax about the chaos and confusion. Totally normal human condition, for every last one of us. It's called "Not Yet Perfected in the Way of the LORD."

Key words: NOT YET

But you will be.

And so will your precious son.

Guarenteed.

Promise sealed by the Blood of the ONE.

Unbreakable contract.

Not yet, but will be perfect in due time.

Which guarentee includes Mitch.

:hug:

Very wise words, thank you. I have not even thought of the PTSS.

You are 100% right, in His time. I'm good with His time.

[jwil59]

You Darlene Mitch in my prayers!!

All of you still going through emotions of what to do next. You live one moment at a time with the LORD'S hand underneath you. That is the hardest part, I know I have been there.

Look to Jesus the author and finisher of our faith. Hebrews

Carlene

Thank you C

[jwil59]

He's a teen still, right?

That's gotta add to the overall difficulty.

I know that having non-major-injury-recovering teenagers tries my patience ALL THE TIME.

I feel for you, my friend. And I'm pulling for you.

Thanks my friend. Those teen years can certainly be difficult, even without all the problems from the injury.

[itsrea]

Very wise words, thank you. I have not even thought of the PTSS.

You are 100% right, in His time. I'm good with His time.yes Jeff... you are right. I just came on to say to you essentially what Rhet said... and I am reminded of a friend of mine telling a story about her grandson.

He has cyctic fibrosis (and that fungus/bacteria [??] that grows in their lungs), arthritis, and multiple other health issues that were supposed to have ended his life about the time he was 15. And he is diagnosed also with ADD or ADHD, I'm not sure but suffice it to say he is hyper enough to drive a banshee crazy. In fact he is no longer allowed in public schools, not because he is mean or anything, but because he is unable to sit still. Add to that that he often throws his CF medications out, causing awful tummy problems and you might get the idea of what a roller coaster ride that whole household is on.

He's 15 1/2 now and being raised by grandma. Grandma loves the Lord and has raised grandson in the Lord, and grandson loves the Lord too. It's just that he is a teen, is expected to die, is living with a OLD granny, and is in considerable pain most of the time.. and all that adds up to a sometimes difficult (to be nice) to miserable (to be honest) person to be around.. a misery that often gets taken out on grandma by way of being insistant about having his own way.. he's even gone so far (in the middle of a heated arguement) to complain that if he is dying he should be able to do whatever he pleases. Well, during one of those confrontations grandma dropped to her knees and asked the Lord for help. Upon hearing this story I laughed and said I wish I'D thought of that cause I can just see the shocked silence that would have ensued had I done that in front of my teens, and my friend said oh, Rea, I didn't do it to shut him up. I did it because my heart was such a miserable thing that I had to turn to the Lord and ask forgiveness.

Well, that put me to shame.. here I am thinking about how it would be a great tool to shut kids up and she explains that she knew that the state of her heart was hurting the Lord.

We, each of us, is reasponsible to the Lord for our actions and reactions... for how we let these things affect the state of our hearts and thus our relationship with God and that includes Mitch too.. and although we don't know how much he understands anymore about his relationship with God and how to work on it, we DO know that we can drop to our knees (even if it is just figuratively) and pray when the need is present.. I am blessed that my friend is who she is and is an example I can use to remind myself to turn to God first, to be concerned about the state of my heart first.. because when I am right with God HE is then able to tell me how to react to situations that cause pain and heartache.

hugs,
Rea

[rhet 2]

Thanks my friend. Those teen years can certainly be difficult, even without all the problems from the injury.


That they are, indeed.

As Rea's 15 year old friend exemplifies.

Thing is, they have the emotions and the sex drives of full adults -- and the rational brains of a 10 year old child to control them with.

When we are children, our parents do the controlling for us -- they set the boundaries and give us cause to live within those boundaries.

But Mitch MUST become an adult, too -- able and willing to control not just themselves but their own future offspring -- able and willing to set and enforce those boundaries for themselves.

And that is tough as snot to learn how to do, when your frontal lobes are not yet growing fast enough to catch up with the emotional, passionate side of your Self that suddenly surged to full size and function when you were 12 and 13 and 14.

Heck, it''s tough for 60 year old grandmas who've been around the block more than once in their lives.

Creating boundaries -- habitualized, consistent, stable, never-shakable patterns of action and reaction, initiation and response SELF control boundaries -- whoo! that's HARD, man, real hard -- even for those of us well practiced in the art of "responsible adult socialized existence."

Add the trauma on top of that -- suddenly waking up to find you can't even walk or roll over in bed or hold a fork and spoon with grace and style -- that you're trapped in a hospital bed at the mercy of folks wearing white Suits -- OUCH!

I don't know why the LORD chose to Grow a Man Named Mitch so fast and hard -- but He did.

And I know He's a Perfect, Never-Fail Gardener Who never loses a tree He's planted by the river of Living Waters.

So, a Man Tree Named Mitch IS GOING TO HAPPEN -- a glorious wonder of a Man Tree planted by that river, to spread its branches over all who shelter beneath it's leaves, both now in this chaotic havey-cavey world of turmoil and stress -- and in Eternity Future when the LORD sits on His throne in the New Jerusalem so that lions and lambs can laugh at silly frogs together.

[jwil59]

Thank you for those wise and supportive words ladies. That Grandma sounds like one of the giants of the Christian faith, I wish I were more like her.

Darlene and Mitchell are home so hopefully we will have a better weekend than last. We plan on a birthday celebration for my mom sometime this weekend as well as other stuff. he is doing better this week, by God's grace, and we are thankfull.

I ask that everyone keep praying hard for him cause all he has is another 2 weeks at Shepherd pathways for therapy and we are uncertain what happens next at this point. We do know he isn't anywhere near done with therapy, but we don't think that we have any place locally that will match up with Shepherd. We have refiled the claim for the Botox, and I will be suprised is they don't pay 100% of that like they have all the other hospital administered drugs. The question is rather or not there is enough time left to make it do any good. There is a lot of uncertaintity so we will lay it at the Lord's feet and let Him handle it.

Thank you guys for everything

jeff

[blazer]

Thank you for those wise and supportive words ladies. That Grandma sounds like one of the giants of the Christian faith, I wish I were more like her.

Darlene and Mitchell are home so hopefully we will have a better weekend than last. We plan on a birthday celebration for my mom sometime this weekend as well as other stuff. he is doing better this week, by God's grace, and we are thankfull.

I ask that everyone keep praying hard for him cause all he has is another 2 weeks at Shepherd pathways for therapy and we are uncertain what happens next at this point. We do know he isn't anywhere near done with therapy, but we don't think that we have any place locally that will match up with Shepherd. We have refiled the claim for the Botox, and I will be suprised is they don't pay 100% of that like they have all the other hospital administered drugs. The question is rather or not there is enough time left to make it do any good. There is a lot of uncertaintity so we will lay it at the Lord's feet and let Him handle it.

Thank you guys for everything

jeff

praying!

[doodle5]

Jeff,

Keep on the insurance, I do know when we are referred to a facility or another Physician or consultation there is date of completion so keep on them.

Carlene

[rhet 2]

praying!

Oh, that we ARE!

This transition back to home-based therapy needs to go smooo--oooth, like softest flannel sliding over a baby's head. No hassles, no problems, the PERFECT Mitch-sized therapists waiting to take over the medical/physical rehab supervision, with lots of PEACE AND TRANQUILITY for all of them.

More new beginnings on the highway ahead. Must meld together neatly with as little turmoil and conflict as the LORD will arrange -- and not one darned thing to make the melding of the old with the new rougher than absolutely needs must be.

[doodle5]

How was the transition to home?

Praying Praying Praying!!!!

Carlene

[Seanachie]

Good Morning Jeff,

Please check your Hannity PM's for a message I sent you.

Be well my Friend,

Jim

[jwil59]

Oh, that we ARE!

This transition back to home-based therapy needs to go smooo--oooth, like softest flannel sliding over a baby's head. No hassles, no problems, the PERFECT Mitch-sized therapists waiting to take over the medical/physical rehab supervision, with lots of PEACE AND TRANQUILITY for all of them.

More new beginnings on the highway ahead. Must meld together neatly with as little turmoil and conflict as the LORD will arrange -- and not one darned thing to make the melding of the old with the new rougher than absolutely needs must be.

That transisiton back home is going to be a major prayer issue.

[jwil59]

Good Morning Jeff,

Please check your Hannity PM's for a message I sent you.

Be well my Friend,

Jim

Got it Jim, thanks

[jwil59]

praying!

Thank you my friend.

[jwil59]

How was the transition to home?

Praying Praying Praying!!!!

Carlene

Thank you C. he should be home permantly in two weeks (May 8)

[jwil59]

My friends we had a very good weekend at home. No problems at all, smooth as silk.

Mitch is certainly continuing to improve. His walking is much better and there is some improvement in using his hands. Thank you so much for your prayers and support. We are on the home stretch now, but I say that knowing that there will be a long road ahead when he gets home. It will be a blessing just to have my family back home together though. God is good for sure.

[rhet 2]

My friends we had a very good weekend at home. No problems at all, smooth as silk.

Mitch is certainly continuing to improve. His walking is much better and there is some improvement in using his hands. Thank you so much for your prayers and support. We are on the home stretch now, but I say that knowing that there will be a long road ahead when he gets home. It will be a blessing just to have my family back home together though. God is good for sure.

Still another gift from the Alpha and the Omega! :clap:

May 8 as a Day of Great Joy remains on my prayer list as a major petition. :hug:

[GA_LP]

Jeff,

Glad to hear Mitch is doing so well. Shepard's is one HELL of a medical center. Its always amazing to hear what they are accomplishing. He's been in the best of hands and we're all still giving you and yours all the support we can.

[jwil59]

Still another gift from the Alpha and the Omega! :clap:

May 8 as a Day of Great Joy remains on my prayer list as a major petition. :hug:

Yep a gift indeed. Thank you Rhet

[jwil59]

Jeff,

Glad to hear Mitch is doing so well. Shepard's is one HELL of a medical center. Its always amazing to hear what they are accomplishing. He's been in the best of hands and we're all still giving you and yours all the support we can.

We appreciate that my friend.

[bella-day]

My friends we had a very good weekend at home. No problems at all, smooth as silk.

Mitch is certainly continuing to improve. His walking is much better and there is some improvement in using his hands. Thank you so much for your prayers and support. We are on the home stretch now, but I say that knowing that there will be a long road ahead when he gets home. It will be a blessing just to have my family back home together though. God is good for sure.


Great news!

Prayers for his continued progress and more prayers that the road ahead is filled with more good days for all of you.

[murphy]

Jeff:
As someone who works with traumatized children and adolescents, might I offer my 2 cents?
Some here have suggested PTSD (Posttraumatic Stress Disorder) as something Mitchell might be struggling with currently. If that is the case, the specifier "chronic" would need to be added, as it has been over 3 months since the symptoms presented. Diagnosis of ANY mental disorder requires that specific criteria be met, according to those set up in the DSM-IV TR. Mitchell must exhibit specific behaviors, ones that were not present before the trauma. Please speak with a professional who is competent to diagnose if you think this may be the issue.

Trauma itself means that the person's response involved "intense fear, helplessness, or horror" (taken from DSM-IV TR on my desk here). Everyone responds to trauma in a different way. It may be that Mitchell is striking out at you and especially your wife BECAUSE of your relationship. Mitchell knows that no matter what, you will not leave him, you will not stop loving him...this security allows him to vent his deepest frustrations, fears, and anxiety to you. When Mitchell lashes out in anger, it probably relates to the event in question about 30%, the rest is feelings related to the trauma itself (ones that Mitchell may not even be aware of). See if you can locate a licensed counselor for Mitchell to talk with, someone who specializes in trauma. It will take a while for Mitchell to figure out his feelings, but with your support, he will make it.
As always, my prayers will continue for you, your wife, and your beautiful son. Take care, trust in God,
Murphy

[itsrea]

My friends we had a very good weekend at home. No problems at all, smooth as silk.

Mitch is certainly continuing to improve. His walking is much better and there is some improvement in using his hands. Thank you so much for your prayers and support. We are on the home stretch now, but I say that knowing that there will be a long road ahead when he gets home. It will be a blessing just to have my family back home together though. God is good for sure.I am especially pleased by this news because I have been so troubled by your family being at odds..

Hugs to you and yours,
I am really greateful and thankful for prayers answered Jeff,
And more prayers offered for continued family joy,
Rea

[jwil59]

Great news!

Prayers for his continued progress and more prayers that the road ahead is filled with more good days for all of you.

Thank you bunches Bella. God bless you

[jwil59]

Jeff:
As someone who works with traumatized children and adolescents, might I offer my 2 cents?
Some here have suggested PTSD (Posttraumatic Stress Disorder) as something Mitchell might be struggling with currently. If that is the case, the specifier "chronic" would need to be added, as it has been over 3 months since the symptoms presented. Diagnosis of ANY mental disorder requires that specific criteria be met, according to those set up in the DSM-IV TR. Mitchell must exhibit specific behaviors, ones that were not present before the trauma. Please speak with a professional who is competent to diagnose if you think this may be the issue.

Trauma itself means that the person's response involved "intense fear, helplessness, or horror" (taken from DSM-IV TR on my desk here). Everyone responds to trauma in a different way. It may be that Mitchell is striking out at you and especially your wife BECAUSE of your relationship. Mitchell knows that no matter what, you will not leave him, you will not stop loving him...this security allows him to vent his deepest frustrations, fears, and anxiety to you. When Mitchell lashes out in anger, it probably relates to the event in question about 30%, the rest is feelings related to the trauma itself (ones that Mitchell may not even be aware of). See if you can locate a licensed counselor for Mitchell to talk with, someone who specializes in trauma. It will take a while for Mitchell to figure out his feelings, but with your support, he will make it.
As always, my prayers will continue for you, your wife, and your beautiful son. Take care, trust in God,
Murphy


We are going to be getting the results from the latest round of phych testing one day this week. We are looking for a doctor at home to deal with some of this stuff.

Thank you very much my friend.

[jwil59]

I am especially pleased by this news because I have been so troubled by your family being at odds..

Hugs to you and yours,
I am really greateful and thankful for prayers answered Jeff,
And more prayers offered for continued family joy,
Rea


Thank you my dear sister

[jwil59]

We are on the home stretch my dear friends. All of you have been a major catalyst in this miracle with all your prayers and support. Like I have said before, I now know why God sent my computer mouse to hannity for the first time. Nothing ever accomplished politically on this forum could ever be as important as the love that has been shown our family. Everyone in my family reads this thread every day, everyone. Like I, they acknowledge the truth I am talking about here. Thank you for your willingness to serve God by serving us. What can I say yall, it's a miracle. I don't know how to thank you, it's much much more than I deserve. That's what Grace is though, unmerited favor from God. You guys are God's instrument of grace, thank you answering that call.

Please continue praying about his hands, muscle tone, and our family relationships. God bless you all, I love you each and every one.

Jeff

[blazer]

We are on the home stretch my dear friends. All of you have been a major catalyst in this miracle with all your prayers and support. Like I have said before, I now know why God sent my computer mouse to hannity for the first time. Nothing ever accomplished politically on this forum could ever be as important as the love that has been shown our family. Everyone in my family reads this thread every day, everyone. Like I, they acknowledge the truth I am talking about here. Thank you for your willingness to serve God by serving us. What can I say yall, it's a miracle. I don't know how to thank you, it's much much more than I deserve. That's what Grace is though, unmerited favor from God. You guys are God's instrument of grace, thank you answering that call.

Please continue praying about his hands, muscle tone, and our family relationships. God bless you all, I love you each and every one.

Jeff

You have blessed us beyond compare with your strength and faith!

[blazer]

bump!

[jwil59]

My bride and Mitch are on their way home for the weekend. The weather is bad so I am praying for a safe trip for them.

We got the results of the physch testing today but I don't have the details yet. All I know at this point is that there are certainly some limitations. His IQ scores were lower, they say because he could not use his hands much for the test. There are also some sight and reading comprohension issues. It's just another bump in the road and some more stuff to pray about.

Thank you all, God bless you and have a great weekend.

jeff

[Gregor]

Much love and continued prayers to you and yours Jeff.

[Seanachie]

My bride and Mitch are on their way home for the weekend. The weather is bad so I am praying for a safe trip for them.

We got the results of the physch testing today but I don't have the details yet. All I know at this point is that there are certainly some limitations. His IQ scores were lower, they say because he could not use his hands much for the test. There are also some sight and reading comprohension issues. It's just another bump in the road and some more stuff to pray about.

Thank you all, God bless you and have a great weekend.

jeff

Hello Jeff,

I hope and pray that Darlene and Mitch had safe travels and you are all together safe and sound at Home.

Please give Mitch a holler for me and tell him I said HELLLLOOOO! Hang tough Kid!

You and yours are always in my prayers to the 'Big Guy'.

Be well and enjoy the heck outta this Weekend,

Jim

[JenyEliza]

My bride and Mitch are on their way home for the weekend. The weather is bad so I am praying for a safe trip for them.

We got the results of the physch testing today but I don't have the details yet. All I know at this point is that there are certainly some limitations. His IQ scores were lower, they say because he could not use his hands much for the test. There are also some sight and reading comprohension issues. It's just another bump in the road and some more stuff to pray about.

Thank you all, God bless you and have a great weekend.

jeff

The Lord has certainly been good to Mitchell, you and the family! Just six months ago, we weren't even sure Mitchell would survive his wounds---and look where he is now. We'll take it! :D

As you said, another bump in the road. Nothing hard work and Mitch's determination won't help--along with the Lord's blessings.

I'm sure your bride and son will arrive safe and sound. The weather here certainly has been stormy the last few days, though!

Sending my love and hugs!

Jeny :hug:

[bella-day]

My bride and Mitch are on their way home for the weekend. The weather is bad so I am praying for a safe trip for them.

We got the results of the physch testing today but I don't have the details yet. All I know at this point is that there are certainly some limitations. His IQ scores were lower, they say because he could not use his hands much for the test. There are also some sight and reading comprohension issues. It's just another bump in the road and some more stuff to pray about.

Thank you all, God bless you and have a great weekend.

jeff

Now that he has been evaluated for his weaknesses, the therapists will look at this strengths and use those to overcome the weak areas.

The reading comprehension is something that maybe overcome with time and effort.

My daughter was diagnosed with a severe language disorder at the age of 3. At the time, I was told..."She will do ok in kindergarten but learning will always be a struggle."

What the therapist and doctors overlooked was her determination. I'm very proud to tell you that she not only did well in kindergarten but high school and college also. My beautiful daughter graduated with a business degree several years ago and is currently working on her second degree in Industrial Engineering. Not a soft degree at all.

Sure she has to work a bit harder than most but she has been blessed with the determination to put forth the amount of effort required.

I have no doubt there are things Mitch will have to relearn beyond the physical challenges he has overcome. With the kind of love and support he has at home...along with his own determination which has been demonstrated by his own survival...you guys will be amazed at what he will be able to accomplish with his life.

Never sell him short (nor allow him too either), and always be there when he needs a shoulder to lean on...something you and your bride do naturally without being told I know...family support is so very important.

Mitch will be able to overcome these glitches with time.

Prayers that these bumps in the road will lead to smoother roads ahead and prayers of thanks that Mitch has been given the gifts of life, time, and determination that will take him to that smoother road.

[Seanachie]

Hello Jeff,

I was at the Falls today and Mitch was in my urgent prayers to the 'Big Guy' as well as well as Andrew from the USMCMoM thread on the 'Boys'. I don't have to explain how TBI's are very near and dear to my heart and mind. These prayers are always urgent to me in that the ongoing recoveries always need all the help the Good Lord can send.

I hope you all had a very good weekend and You and Yours were in those prayers also; with no less urgency.

Be well my Friend,

Jim

[Calibabe]

We are on the home stretch my dear friends. All of you have been a major catalyst in this miracle with all your prayers and support. Like I have said before, I now know why God sent my computer mouse to hannity for the first time. Nothing ever accomplished politically on this forum could ever be as important as the love that has been shown our family. Everyone in my family reads this thread every day, everyone. Like I, they acknowledge the truth I am talking about here. Thank you for your willingness to serve God by serving us. What can I say yall, it's a miracle. I don't know how to thank you, it's much much more than I deserve. That's what Grace is though, unmerited favor from God. You guys are God's instrument of grace, thank you answering that call.

Please continue praying about his hands, muscle tone, and our family relationships. God bless you all, I love you each and every one.

Jeff


Dear Jeff,

I still remember the first time hearing of what happened to Mitchell. My son came in and told me. He was almost in tears. Here were were getting ready to go to Mass and this happened. I immediately said a Hail Mary, and then briefly went in to see your son's name and when I got to church I hit my knees so hard and began to pray. I asked God to please do whatever was in his power to keep Mitchell there and to heal him.

It was, has and will continue to be a blessing to pray for you and your family. This is not over by a long shot. I know that you know that and Darlene knows that. Mitchell is still going to have a long road to go. I think a therapist is a great idea. Someone other than you, Darlene, a family member or regular doctor that he sees, that he can talk to about anything and everything. It might also make him feel better to know that what he is going through and I am sure that he has been told this hundreds of times at Shepherds, is completely normal. However when you are in a not so normal setting, the brain kind of works in funny ways.

I have no doubt in my mind that no matter what is throw in your way, Mitchell and all of you will find the strength to overcome it. Look at how far you have gotten to this point.

I will continue to keep you all in my prayers. God bless all of you.

[jwil59]

Much love and continued prayers to you and yours Jeff.

God bless you G.

[jwil59]

Hello Jeff,

I hope and pray that Darlene and Mitch had safe travels and you are all together safe and sound at Home.

Please give Mitch a holler for me and tell him I said HELLLLOOOO! Hang tough Kid!

You and yours are always in my prayers to the 'Big Guy'.

Be well and enjoy the heck outta this Weekend,

Jim

Thanks Jim, we had another really good weekend. God bless you bro.

[jwil59]

The Lord has certainly been good to Mitchell, you and the family! Just six months ago, we weren't even sure Mitchell would survive his wounds---and look where he is now. We'll take it! :D

As you said, another bump in the road. Nothing hard work and Mitch's determination won't help--along with the Lord's blessings.

I'm sure your bride and son will arrive safe and sound. The weather here certainly has been stormy the last few days, though!

Sending my love and hugs!

Jeny :hug:

Thank you Jeny.

We have been worried about you and the younguns my friend. Yall are certainly in my prayers.

[jwil59]

Now that he has been evaluated for his weaknesses, the therapists will look at this strengths and use those to overcome the weak areas.

The reading comprehension is something that maybe overcome with time and effort.

My daughter was diagnosed with a severe language disorder at the age of 3. At the time, I was told..."She will do ok in kindergarten but learning will always be a struggle."

What the therapist and doctors overlooked was her determination. I'm very proud to tell you that she not only did well in kindergarten but high school and college also. My beautiful daughter graduated with a business degree several years ago and is currently working on her second degree in Industrial Engineering. Not a soft degree at all.

Sure she has to work a bit harder than most but she has been blessed with the determination to put forth the amount of effort required.

I have no doubt there are things Mitch will have to relearn beyond the physical challenges he has overcome. With the kind of love and support he has at home...along with his own determination which has been demonstrated by his own survival...you guys will be amazed at what he will be able to accomplish with his life.

Never sell him short (nor allow him too either), and always be there when he needs a shoulder to lean on...something you and your bride do naturally without being told I know...family support is so very important.

Mitch will be able to overcome these glitches with time.

Prayers that these bumps in the road will lead to smoother roads ahead and prayers of thanks that Mitch has been given the gifts of life, time, and determination that will take him to that smoother road.


Your daughter sounds like a real blessing bella, I oray Mitch can overcome his problems too. Thanks for posting that and your prayers my friend.

[jwil59]

Hello Jeff,

I was at the Falls today and Mitch was in my urgent prayers to the 'Big Guy' as well as well as Andrew from the USMCMoM thread on the 'Boys'. I don't have to explain how TBI's are very near and dear to my heart and mind. These prayers are always urgent to me in that the ongoing recoveries always need all the help the Good Lord can send.

I hope you all had a very good weekend and You and Yours were in those prayers also; with no less urgency.

Be well my Friend,

Jim

We did have a good weekend Jim, thanks buddy.

I am praying hard for Andrew too my friend, sounds like he is doing better. Like in this thread, you are a wealth of information for those of us dealing with brain injuries and I am eternally gratefull

[jwil59]

Dear Jeff,

I still remember the first time hearing of what happened to Mitchell. My son came in and told me. He was almost in tears. Here were were getting ready to go to Mass and this happened. I immediately said a Hail Mary, and then briefly went in to see your son's name and when I got to church I hit my knees so hard and began to pray. I asked God to please do whatever was in his power to keep Mitchell there and to heal him.

It was, has and will continue to be a blessing to pray for you and your family. This is not over by a long shot. I know that you know that and Darlene knows that. Mitchell is still going to have a long road to go. I think a therapist is a great idea. Someone other than you, Darlene, a family member or regular doctor that he sees, that he can talk to about anything and everything. It might also make him feel better to know that what he is going through and I am sure that he has been told this hundreds of times at Shepherds, is completely normal. However when you are in a not so normal setting, the brain kind of works in funny ways.

I have no doubt in my mind that no matter what is throw in your way, Mitchell and all of you will find the strength to overcome it. Look at how far you have gotten to this point.

I will continue to keep you all in my prayers. God bless all of you.

As I have said before your son is spiritually wise wayyyy beyond his years. He will always be in my prayers. Those early prayers is what kept Mitch alive to make it to theraly. I thank you and everyone else for that. God bless you and yours cali.

[jwil59]

We did have a good weekend my friends, smooth as silk.

We have another 5 days of therapy at Shepherd and then it's home. They are setting up his therapy in Alabama but we don't know the details yet. By God's grace I think we made the right decesion about going to Shepherd Center. And by God's Grace Mitch has made a remarkable recovery, although he still has a long way to go. That is because of your faithfullness to pray, and God's Grace. I might sound like a broken record but everytime I think about everything that has happened since day 1 of all this God's Grace is what always comes to mind.

God bless you all and thank you

Jeff

[jwil59]

Just 3 more days :lol:


:lol:

[gb2004]

Just 3 more days :lol:


:lol:

Wow. That's great news. Mitch has come so far.:D

[Seanachie]

Hello Jeff,

Mitch will soon be home and methinks this will be a new beginning for him in old surroundings he cherishes.

My prayers are with Mitch, Darlene, You and your entire Family to the 'Big Guy' that this transition goes as smoothly as possible.

You all have a great deal of hard work ahead of you and I have Faith in each and every one of you that that this hard work will be done without any further hardships and the enthusiasm to 'have at it'.

Be well my Friend,

Jim

[Created Soul]

I've only commented once I think but have followed the journey you and your family have had to make through this difficult time and wanted to let you know our prayers remain for strength and blessings for your family. God Bless

[blazer]

Hello Jeff! God bless you and hugs! :hug:

[jwil59]

By God's Grace we are reunited again at home. Everything is well so far. We will know more Monday about his therapy schedule on Monday hopefully. We also have to see the surgeon who did the emergency surgery the night of the accident.

Today is a huge step and we thank God.

[USMCmom]

By God's Grace we are reunited again at home. Everything is well so far. We will know more Monday about his therapy schedule on Monday hopefully. We also have to see the surgeon who did the emergency surgery the night of the accident.

Today is a huge step and we thank God.

Jeff,
This made me smile and cry at the same time...:hug:!!! How incredibly amazing is it that you are once again all reunited at "HOME!" My mom was awed by Mitchell's progress and she loved the pictures...especially the ones of you, Darlene and him! This is the best news, you just made my whole weekend!:dance: What a wonderful Mothers Day gift!!!
Take care my friend and please know that you all are in my prayers...
God Bless
Kelly

[JenyEliza]

By God's Grace we are reunited again at home. Everything is well so far. We will know more Monday about his therapy schedule on Monday hopefully. We also have to see the surgeon who did the emergency surgery the night of the accident.

Today is a huge step and we thank God.

Simply incredible.

When repchick visited last month, I took her to the grocery store where I stood in line with complete strangers and we prayed for Mitchell at Christmastime. I cannot believe how far he has come in that time.

What a perfect, perfect, perfect Mother's Day gift for Darlene! :mrgreen:

Happy Mother's Day, Darlene. :hug:

Godspeed to you all. I'm sorry you had to come and stay in our fair city under the circumstances you found yourselves in, but I'm glad we were able to offer the facilities and professionals that could give a mother her son back--just in time for Mother's Day.

Hope your next visit to Atlanta is leisure and holiday, not medical related at all.

Love you all! :hug: :hug: :hug:

Jeny and kids.....

[bella-day]

By God's Grace we are reunited again at home. Everything is well so far. We will know more Monday about his therapy schedule on Monday hopefully. We also have to see the surgeon who did the emergency surgery the night of the accident.

Today is a huge step and we thank God.

Everyone home, what a wonderful Mother's Day gift for your bride.

The surgeon who did the emergency surgery is going to be so happy to see how far Mitch has come since that night.

May God bless and keep you and your family. You all remain in my prayers.:hug:

[HopeAngel]

Prays to you and your family.

[czzzaar]

Praying for Mitch's continuing miracle.

[jwil59]

Jeff,
This made me smile and cry at the same time...:hug:!!! How incredibly amazing is it that you are once again all reunited at "HOME!" My mom was awed by Mitchell's progress and she loved the pictures...especially the ones of you, Darlene and him! This is the best news, you just made my whole weekend!:dance: What a wonderful Mothers Day gift!!!
Take care my friend and please know that you all are in my prayers...
God Bless
Kelly

God bless you kelly. Hope you had a great Mothers day

[jwil59]

Simply incredible.

When repchick visited last month, I took her to the grocery store where I stood in line with complete strangers and we prayed for Mitchell at Christmastime. I cannot believe how far he has come in that time.

What a perfect, perfect, perfect Mother's Day gift for Darlene! :mrgreen:

Happy Mother's Day, Darlene. :hug:

Godspeed to you all. I'm sorry you had to come and stay in our fair city under the circumstances you found yourselves in, but I'm glad we were able to offer the facilities and professionals that could give a mother her son back--just in time for Mother's Day.

Hope your next visit to Atlanta is leisure and holiday, not medical related at all.

Love you all! :hug: :hug: :hug:

Jeny and kids.....

I hope you and the kids are doing better Jeny. Thank you for everything you did for us while we were in Atlanta. It was great to meet you guys, and thanks for taking the time to brighten our day early on in our stay at Shepherd Center.

[jwil59]

Wow. That's great news. Mitch has come so far.:D

yes he has. Thank you for all your prayers and support.

[jwil59]

Hello Jeff,

Mitch will soon be home and methinks this will be a new beginning for him in old surroundings he cherishes.

My prayers are with Mitch, Darlene, You and your entire Family to the 'Big Guy' that this transition goes as smoothly as possible.

You all have a great deal of hard work ahead of you and I have Faith in each and every one of you that that this hard work will be done without any further hardships and the enthusiasm to 'have at it'.

Be well my Friend,

Jim

You are the man Jim. Thank you for everything buddy.

[jwil59]

Prays to you and your family.

Thank you hope and welcome to the forum my friend

[jwil59]

Praying for Mitch's continuing miracle.

Thank you my friend. he is home but still has a long way to go.

[jwil59]

I've only commented once I think but have followed the journey you and your family have had to make through this difficult time and wanted to let you know our prayers remain for strength and blessings for your family. God Bless

Thank you very much

[jwil59]

Hello Jeff! God bless you and hugs! :hug:

You are a blessing to us all. Hope Virginia is well.

God bless

[jwil59]

Everyone home, what a wonderful Mother's Day gift for your bride.

The surgeon who did the emergency surgery is going to be so happy to see how far Mitch has come since that night.

May God bless and keep you and your family. You all remain in my prayers.:hug:

Thank you bella. I hope you had a great day yesterday my friend

[jwil59]

Alrighty my friends everyone is home and all is pretty well so far. We had a great day yesterday as our entire extended family went to Church together for the first time since the accident, including my mom and dad. That was very emotional to say the least. Mitch made an apperance in a few of the kids Sunday School classes that have been praying for him the whole way. The kids all had the deer in the headlights look when they saw him. Man what a great lesson in the power of prayer those kids learned yesterday. It was great to see everyone and they were all well please to see the fruits of their prayers. I cannot even begin to try and explain what our Church means to us. It was a great day overall as we also had a Mothers day celebration at Joni's house.

Today was his first physical therapy day. He got evaluated by a therapist and did some exersizes. He says what they did is basically the same stuff he was doing at Shepherd Center, which is good. He will be doing PT and OT three days a week back to back for a total of a couple hours. His speech therapy evaluation is tommorrow and then it is back to school. he will be going back to school 5 days a week but only about 4 hours a day. All the paperwork has been filed to see that the school system does what it takes to catch him up. They are talking about him actually walking with his graduating class and making up the credits to actually get a diploma in the summer. His main teacher (Mrs Schnars) has been wondefrull filing all the paperwork with the state of Alabama so that all this will happen. God bles her heart, all we had to do is sign up and she did the rest.

Please keep praying for us as he still has a very long way to go. It is going to be much harder for him to focus being at home and all. We also ask for your prayers for our family relationships as we grow acclimated to trying to get back to something close to normal. We know that our lives are forever changed but we still need to get a routine. Thank you all so very much, you have prayed us through to another stage of this recovery. We now wait for what God has in store for us next.

God bless you all

Jeff


ETA - I have not had time to read anything this weekend. I am praying that I will find Rhet is back on the board with us and doing OK.

[wonderingrover]

Jwil,

I've not been on the board too much recently due to the stroke I had suffered, but I did want to let you know your son is definitely in my prayers. I am glad to see he was able to go home - I pray that he will continue to recover and that things will go as smoothly as possible.

[jwil59]

Jwil,

I've not been on the board too much recently due to the stroke I had suffered, but I did want to let you know your son is definitely in my prayers. I am glad to see he was able to go home - I pray that he will continue to recover and that things will go as smoothly as possible.

Thank you my friend. I will also be praying for your recovery. How are you doing?

[USMCmom]

Jeff...hope that Darlene had a wonderful Mother's Day! I can only imagine the joy you both must feel to have your "family" back home nce again! You are all in my prayers...please let Mitchell know how proud we are of him!!!
Take care my friend and God Bless
Kelly

[jwil59]

Jeff...hope that Darlene had a wonderful Mother's Day! I can only imagine the joy you both must feel to have your "family" back home nce again! You are all in my prayers...please let Mitchell know how proud we are of him!!!
Take care my friend and God Bless
Kelly

Yes we are happy to have everyone home Kelly. I pray Casey and the rest of your bunch are doing well.

[Hadassah]

I have tears of joy pouring out of my eyes. I have to keep blinking them away so that I can see well enough to type this.


Thank You, Jesus!

[jwil59]

Tommorrow will be Mitchell's first full day of school and therapy sessions so a little prayer bump for his stamina would be appreciated. He is still doing well and so far everything is going well at home (as well as can be expected). He seems to be doing more things for himself each day, Praise God from whom all blessings flow. God's grace and mercy continue to dominate this miraculous recovery. That is a direct product of your faithfullness and willingness to pray for us since trhe first day. Thank you each and every one and God bless you.

jeff

[blazer]

Tommorrow will be Mitchell's first full day of school and therapy sessions so a little prayer bump for his stamina would be appreciated. He is still doing well and so far everything is going well at home (as well as can be expected). He seems to be doing more things for himself each day, Praise God from whom all blessings flow. God's grace and mercy continue to dominate this miraculous recovery. That is a direct product of your faithfullness and willingness to pray for us since trhe first day. Thank you each and every one and God bless you.

jeff
Praying!

[Seanachie]

Hello Jeff,

Mitch, You, Darlene and your Family have my prayer 'bump' for Mitch's stamina and for the 'Big Guy' to send you all the stamina that's needed here. I have no doubt that you all have the determination and Faith to get through this leg of Mitch's journey. You very own journeys are just as important as Mitch's; for that will make his journey that much less taxing on his entire being. I have Faith in the Faith you have been so gracious to share with me and many, many others. I count that as one of God's Blessings standing by itself. I thank God that he sent that Faith through you to me.

Be well my Friend,

Jim

[JenyEliza]

Tommorrow will be Mitchell's first full day of school and therapy sessions so a little prayer bump for his stamina would be appreciated. He is still doing well and so far everything is going well at home (as well as can be expected). He seems to be doing more things for himself each day, Praise God from whom all blessings flow. God's grace and mercy continue to dominate this miraculous recovery. That is a direct product of your faithfullness and willingness to pray for us since trhe first day. Thank you each and every one and God bless you.

jeff

Please post and let us know how Mitchell's first day back at school went. Hope it was a big day for him. Glad he's back before the end of the year--I bet his buddies will be glad to see him too!

I'll continue to hold you all up in prayer! :hug: :pray:

Jeny

[jwil59]

Praying!

Thanks blazer

[jwil59]

Hello Jeff,

Mitch, You, Darlene and your Family have my prayer 'bump' for Mitch's stamina and for the 'Big Guy' to send you all the stamina that's needed here. I have no doubt that you all have the determination and Faith to get through this leg of Mitch's journey. You very own journeys are just as important as Mitch's; for that will make his journey that much less taxing on his entire being. I have Faith in the Faith you have been so gracious to share with me and many, many others. I count that as one of God's Blessings standing by itself. I thank God that he sent that Faith through you to me.

Be well my Friend,

Jim

God uses many avenues to bloster one's faith my friend. Your prayers and advice in this thread are really appreciated.

[jwil59]

Please post and let us know how Mitchell's first day back at school went. Hope it was a big day for him. Glad he's back before the end of the year--I bet his buddies will be glad to see him too!

I'll continue to hold you all up in prayer! :hug: :pray:

Jeny

His first school day went well but I was wrong, the therapy don't start til tommorrow. he's doin good, thanks for everything jeny. I hope you guys are doing better

[rhet 2]

His first school day went well but I was wrong, the therapy don't start til tommorrow. he's doin good, thanks for everything jeny. I hope you guys are doing better

"One day at a time, Sweet Jesus!"

It does my heart such good to see so much headway made.

:hug:

[jwil59]

"One day at a time, Sweet Jesus!"

It does my heart such good to see so much headway made.

:hug:


hey you!!!

Welcome back, you were missed :lol:

[rhet 2]

hey you!!!

Welcome back, you were missed :lol:

So were you.

Never out of my heart and mind, as a matter of fact. :hug:

[jwil59]

So were you.

Never out of my heart and mind, as a matter of fact. :hug:

I know that is true my friend. I appreciate you so very much.

[blazer]

How is it going now? :hug:

[repchick]

Prayers still going out for you and yours Jeff.

[murphy]

Jeff:
It is so good to check in on this thread and see the wonderful miracle that God has granted to your son and your family. May these blessings continue always....
Take care,
Murphy

[jwil59]

Thank you my friends.

We had to take my mother to the ER on Sunday and she was admitted to the hospital for test, where shehas been til today. They think he dizziness, stumbling, and slurred speech might be because she is severly amenic (how ever you spell that). They also say her heart is a little weak and that can lead to congestive heart failure. They did a full battery of tests and have her schedule for some other outpatient tests. My sister is driving her home as I type this. Your prayers for her would be appreciated.

Mitch is doing OK I guess. They have cancelled his occupational therapy twice already, and I am ticked cause that is what he needs the most. If they cannot handle him they need to tell us so we can find somebody that can. I think one of Mitch's main problems at this point is anger. At Shepherd's everyone else was like him, actually he was better than most. Now that he is home in the real world his disabliliies are really hitting home. Also his friends are not comming around all that much, which is probably a blessing in some cases but he don't see it that way. He is also dealing with the thought that his best friend might have actually accidently shot him and has been lying about it all along. He isn't at this point able to go out with his friends or anything and he is bored to death. That is a lot for him to mentally deal with and I think he is very frustrated. Please pray about that.

I am having a very hard time typing all this with Rea on my heart, that's about all I can really think about right now. I just found out about Rick today because I have been away from the board for a few days with my mom. I wish I knew what to say.

God bless yall,

jeff

[bella-day]

Adjustments are tough and I do not only mean that for Mitch but also the people he felt were his friends before this all took place.

Maybe some of them do not come around because they really do not know what to say?

I was unaware of this suspicion regarding his "friend." I hope and pray the truth of the actions that lead to Mitch's journey are revealed. It would most likely help all of you put that chapter behind you.

Is it anger Jeff or a young man's way of expressing frustration? I can not imagine how frustrating it would be to be able to see your future before you one second and then wake up in a hospital bed the next second...days later...and have no idea how it was you ended up there and no idea what the lifelong implications would be.

Prayers, prayers, and more prayers for you and yours my friend.

It is so like you to put Rea's problems before those of your own. From you I've learned much about compassion for others and thinking beyond my own problems.

Thank you so much for sharing that part of your heart with us.

[Gregor]

Tommorrow will be Mitchell's first full day of school and therapy sessions so a little prayer bump for his stamina would be appreciated. He is still doing well and so far everything is going well at home (as well as can be expected). He seems to be doing more things for himself each day, Praise God from whom all blessings flow. God's grace and mercy continue to dominate this miraculous recovery. That is a direct product of your faithfullness and willingness to pray for us since trhe first day. Thank you each and every one and God bless you.

jeff

Amazing how far he has come from that fateful night that seems a million years ago. Much love to you and your family.

[blazer]

Thank you my friends.

We had to take my mother to the ER on Sunday and she was admitted to the hospital for test, where shehas been til today. They think he dizziness, stumbling, and slurred speech might be because she is severly amenic (how ever you spell that). They also say her heart is a little weak and that can lead to congestive heart failure. They did a full battery of tests and have her schedule for some other outpatient tests. My sister is driving her home as I type this. Your prayers for her would be appreciated.

Mitch is doing OK I guess. They have cancelled his occupational therapy twice already, and I am ticked cause that is what he needs the most. If they cannot handle him they need to tell us so we can find somebody that can. I think one of Mitch's main problems at this point is anger. At Shepherd's everyone else was like him, actually he was better than most. Now that he is home in the real world his disabliliies are really hitting home. Also his friends are not comming around all that much, which is probably a blessing in some cases but he don't see it that way. He is also dealing with the thought that his best friend might have actually accidently shot him and has been lying about it all along. He isn't at this point able to go out with his friends or anything and he is bored to death. That is a lot for him to mentally deal with and I think he is very frustrated. Please pray about that.

I am having a very hard time typing all this with Rea on my heart, that's about all I can really think about right now. I just found out about Rick today because I have been away from the board for a few days with my mom. I wish I knew what to say.

God bless yall,

jeff

still praying! God will bring y'all through this some how! :hug:

[jwil59]

Thank you friends for your posts, pms, support and prayers. Mitchell is finally getting some occupational therapy, thank God. They now have him scheduled for 3 days a week so I hope that holds up. Physically he is still doing pretty good I guess, all things considered. By God's Grace things have been a little better around the house so far this week. Thank you all again for everything you have done since the first day.

My heart is still heavy today as I pray for my dear friend and sister Rea. I wish I had some words to help ease her pain.

[czzzaar]

I have been so busy with my own life's challenges that I have not been able to keep up with Mitchell's physical progress, Jeff. How is he doing with the use of his hands and walking?

I pray that he regains everything and am grateful to God for the miracles he has already worked on Mitch.

Peace to you, brother.

[stoked]

Mitch, make sure they rule out a stroke or some other brain anamoly on your mom. Your son has one thing to be happy about, he has absolutely the best Mom and Dad in the world. Friends come and go...

[bella-day]

Thank you friends for your posts, pms, support and prayers. Mitchell is finally getting some occupational therapy, thank God. They now have him scheduled for 3 days a week so I hope that holds up. Physically he is still doing pretty good I guess, all things considered. By God's Grace things have been a little better around the house so far this week. Thank you all again for everything you have done since the first day.

My heart is still heavy today as I pray for my dear friend and sister Rea. I wish I had some words to help ease her pain.


I join you in prayer for her.

It's good to read that you have gotten his schedule for therapy. One more step in the right direction.

[jwil59]

I have been so busy with my own life's challenges that I have not been able to keep up with Mitchell's physical progress, Jeff. How is he doing with the use of his hands and walking?

I pray that he regains everything and am grateful to God for the miracles he has already worked on Mitch.

Peace to you, brother.


he is walking good but the use of his hands isn't so good. Hopefully by God's grace that will improve. Thank you my friend

[jwil59]

I join you in prayer for her.

It's good to read that you have gotten his schedule for therapy. One more step in the right direction.

yes we are going in the right direction for sure.

Thank you for everything Bella, God bless you my friend

[jwil59]

Jeff:
It is so good to check in on this thread and see the wonderful miracle that God has granted to your son and your family. May these blessings continue always....
Take care,
Murphy

I appreciate that Murphy, thank you so much

[jwil59]

Amazing how far he has come from that fateful night that seems a million years ago. Much love to you and your family.

Love back at ya to you and yours G. Thank you

[jwil59]

still praying! God will bring y'all through this some how! :hug:

yes He will, I am confident of that. Actually I know it to be a fact that He will do just that, in His time. Thank you so much

[jwil59]

Mitch, make sure they rule out a stroke or some other brain anamoly on your mom. Your son has one thing to be happy about, he has absolutely the best Mom and Dad in the world. Friends come and go...

Thank you my friend

[czzzaar]

he is walking good but the use of his hands isn't so good. Hopefully by God's grace that will improve. Thank you my friend

I'll pray harder for the hands, Jeff.

God is merciful.

[Seanachie]

Hello Jeff,

Your Mom is in my prayers as is Mitch and all of your Family. I haven't been able to get to the Falls since the day Rhet came so graciously back to us. I share your concerns for Rea in her grief for Rick. I will try to get to the Falls on the Morrow. Me and the 'Big Guy' have alot to discuss about things in the OO and my usual personal stuff.

I was reading some ads in Men's Journal and ran across a hand and finger exerciser that might help Mitch in those functions. The link to the outfit follows.

http://www.prohands.net/

I hope this may be of some use to Mitch.

I know you have a great deal on your mind and I don't want to add to that. You and Yours will be in my prayers to the 'Big Guy' at the Falls tomorrow if I can get there. All of you are always in my prayers regardless if I get to the Falls. I just think the Good Lord pays extra attention when I go there cause I usually don't get there until there is great need....least what I perceive as great need. There are many here methinks. I'm sure He knows what is a great need. Somehow I get that.

Be well my Friend,

Jim

[jwil59]

Hello Jeff,

Your Mom is in my prayers as is Mitch and all of your Family. I haven't been able to get to the Falls since the day Rhet came so graciously back to us. I share your concerns for Rea in her grief for Rick. I will try to get to the Falls on the Morrow. Me and the 'Big Guy' have alot to discuss about things in the OO and my usual personal stuff.

I was reading some ads in Men's Journal and ran across a hand and finger exerciser that might help Mitch in those functions. The link to the outfit follows.

http://www.prohands.net/

I hope this may be of some use to Mitch.

I know you have a great deal on your mind and I don't want to add to that. You and Yours will be in my prayers to the 'Big Guy' at the Falls tomorrow if I can get there. All of you are always in my prayers regardless if I get to the Falls. I just think the Good Lord pays extra attention when I go there cause I usually don't get there until there is great need....least what I perceive as great need. There are many here methinks. I'm sure He knows what is a great need. Somehow I get that.

Be well my Friend,

Jim

Thanks for that link Jim, I have it saved cause that looks like something that might help if I can get him to do it.

Hope you are well buddy and thanks for everything.

[blazer]

yes He will, I am confident of that. Actually I know it to be a fact that He will do just that, in His time. Thank you so much

Thank You for being an inspiration to us all!

[Trinka]

Jeff and Family,

Life is so hard at times...we struggle with questions there seems to be no answer to..when our son went through this, it was anger one minute and sobbing the next. The pros tell you this is normal, yet, for family it's anything but normal. We just want our child back.

You and yours have been in my prayers since the first time I read this thread and sat here and cried...knowing just what you were feeling. I can't tell you how many times "they" told us our son shouldn't even be here, and how many times he's told me that too. Wondered why am I still here...he doesn't have this great faith that we have, and Mitch has.

There is One thing I believe...when they say some one shouldn't be here.......It's because God has a great call on that person's life, and there are great things ahead for them. (Of course when I told our son that he didn't want to hear it) He did ask me what I thought that might be...I said to simply help others. Sometimes others need to hear from some one who's been there...

Today I ask the LORD touch His hands to Mitch's hands..that He touch each of you and yours, and your Mother's body and grant the healing only He can. I ask He provide His provision and wisdom where ever it need be.

In Jesus' Name, Amen
Ps..I sent you a prayer a while back, I don't know if you got it. During your time at a hospital I think. As One loving parent to another...God Bless!

[rhet 2]

Jeff and Family,

Life is so hard at times...we struggle with questions there seems to be no answer to..when our son went through this, it was anger one minute and sobbing the next. The pros tell you this is normal, yet, for family it's anything but normal. We just want our child back.

You and yours have been in my prayers since the first time I read this thread and sat here and cried...knowing just what you were feeling. I can't tell you how many times "they" told us our son shouldn't even be here, and how many times he's told me that too. Wondered why am I still here...he doesn't have this great faith that we have, and Mitch has.

There is One thing I believe...when they say some one shouldn't be here.......It's because God has a great call on that person's life, and there are great things ahead for them. (Of course when I told our son that he didn't want to hear it) He did ask me what I thought that might be...I said to simply help others. Sometimes others need to hear from some one who's been there...

Today I ask the LORD touch His hands to Mitch's hands..that He touch each of you and yours, and your Mother's body and grant the healing only He can. I ask He provide His provision and wisdom where ever it need be.

In Jesus' Name, Amen
Ps..I sent you a prayer a while back, I don't know if you got it. During your time at a hospital I think. As One loving parent to another...God Bless!

Amen

With a whole heart, amen.

I, too, know someone I cherish who "shouldn't be here" -- and is a great blessing to all whom he encounters, a man of deep and abiding love for others.

:hug:

[jwil59]

I'll pray harder for the hands, Jeff.

God is merciful.

Yes he is merciful, check this out: last night when I got home from work Mitch got up to go to the bathroom and he asked me to pour him some soda. I did that and he actually picked the cup up by wrapping one hand around the glass like the rest of us do. Up until this time he has been grabbing a cup or glass with both hands and drinking like that. he hadd to use two hands to actually drink from the g;lass but he did reach down and pick that cup up with one hand. That's progress with those hands. Thank you for your prayers.

[jwil59]

Thank You for being an inspiration to us all!

Trust me on this, it is you guys that inspire me. The people on this forum have been amazing to us.

God bless you all

[FoxGranadaChuck]

Yes he is merciful, check this out: last night when I got home from work Mitch got up to go to the bathroom and he asked me to pour him some soda. I did that and he actually picked the cup up by wrapping one hand around the glass like the rest of us do. Up until this time he has been grabbing a cup or glass with both hands and drinking like that. he hadd to use two hands to actually drink from the g;lass but he did reach down and pick that cup up with one hand. That's progress with those hands. Thank you for your prayers.


Thank you, Lord. :pray:

[jwil59]

Jeff and Family,

Life is so hard at times...we struggle with questions there seems to be no answer to..when our son went through this, it was anger one minute and sobbing the next. The pros tell you this is normal, yet, for family it's anything but normal. We just want our child back.

You and yours have been in my prayers since the first time I read this thread and sat here and cried...knowing just what you were feeling. I can't tell you how many times "they" told us our son shouldn't even be here, and how many times he's told me that too. Wondered why am I still here...he doesn't have this great faith that we have, and Mitch has.

There is One thing I believe...when they say some one shouldn't be here.......It's because God has a great call on that person's life, and there are great things ahead for them. (Of course when I told our son that he didn't want to hear it) He did ask me what I thought that might be...I said to simply help others. Sometimes others need to hear from some one who's been there...

Today I ask the LORD touch His hands to Mitch's hands..that He touch each of you and yours, and your Mother's body and grant the healing only He can. I ask He provide His provision and wisdom where ever it need be.

In Jesus' Name, Amen
Ps..I sent you a prayer a while back, I don't know if you got it. During your time at a hospital I think. As One loving parent to another...God Bless!

Thank you so much Trinka. God bless you my friend.

Your son and family is in my prayers, you can count on that.

[blazer]

Yes he is merciful, check this out: last night when I got home from work Mitch got up to go to the bathroom and he asked me to pour him some soda. I did that and he actually picked the cup up by wrapping one hand around the glass like the rest of us do. Up until this time he has been grabbing a cup or glass with both hands and drinking like that. he hadd to use two hands to actually drink from the g;lass but he did reach down and pick that cup up with one hand. That's progress with those hands. Thank you for your prayers.

praise God! :clap:

[blazer]

Trust me on this, it is you guys that inspire me. The people on this forum have been amazing to us.

God bless you all

as you are! :hug:

[USMCmom]

Jeff...I apologize for not posting sooner, my laptop is on the fritz and everytime I go to post it SHUTS OFF!!! Anyways, I just wanted to say that I am sorry to hear about your mom am adding her to my prayers. I am so excited by Mitch's progress ,the Lord has certainly blessed and watched over this young man...not a day goes by that I don't thank God for being s merciful and kind. It also helps that Mitch has such amazing parents...:clap:

Please have a wonderful Memorial Day Weekend :flag:and know that we are always thinking of you all.
Take care & God Bless my friend:hug:
Kelly

[jwil59]

Thank you, Lord. :pray:

Indeed, to Him be the glory.

[jwil59]

praise God! :clap:

Praise God indeed. He is good

[jwil59]

Amen

With a whole heart, amen.

I, too, know someone I cherish who "shouldn't be here" -- and is a great blessing to all whom he encounters, a man of deep and abiding love for others.

:hug:

I really hope and pray you and the bear's situation is improving. I am praying for that.

Thank you my friend

[jwil59]

Jeff...I apologize for not posting sooner, my laptop is on the fritz and everytime I go to post it SHUTS OFF!!! Anyways, I just wanted to say that I am sorry to hear about your mom am adding her to my prayers. I am so excited by Mitch's progress ,the Lord has certainly blessed and watched over this young man...not a day goes by that I don't thank God for being s merciful and kind. It also helps that Mitch has such amazing parents...:clap:

Please have a wonderful Memorial Day Weekend :flag:and know that we are always thinking of you all.
Take care & God Bless my friend:hug:
Kelly

Thank you Kelly. God bless you and have a great holiday

[jwil59]

OK I am pretty proud right now. Tonight was Honors Night at Mitchell's school. He made the walk in his full cap and gown. I was sitting in my seat praying about it really hard. The floor of the auditorium is ramped or slanted down going in and up comming out. It was steep enough that I was really concerned that maybe he could lose his balance. The program started at 7 pm but we had to have him there by 5:30. All the graduates assembled in the cafeteria at that time, so Mitch had to stand in line for an hour and a half before he could even make the walk. I know he had to be very tired. He walked down through there tall and proud, by God's Grace there were no problems or even a studder step. It was easy to tell he wasn't 100% but I was really proud or how he did. I could tell as he was walking he was having to concentrate, and that he was approaching his limit energy wise. There was a small glitch though. When they played the National Anthem all the guys had to remove their caps. Well Mitch's hands don't work good enough at this point to get that cap back own, so he walked out holding it. I wish maybe one of the other kids would have offered him some help but he didn't know any of them so he didn't ask and I am not sure he wants a stranger touching his head anyway. Even with that, all in all it was a huge sucess. He is worn out now and laying on the sofa watching TV with his mom. I thank God cause He knows I was certainly praying during that long wait. The graduation is Thursday night and I pray it goes that good.

He also had a good therapy week. He says these folks are working him harder then they did at Shepherds and I am praying that will pay off. Yall Mitch has been through this whole things without really complaing. I mean some of the behavior problems we have had aside, he has took it like a man. A couple times early on he looked at me and said " Daddy I wish I had not got shot in the head". That's been about the worst as far as complaing goes. He hasn't really cried about it or tried to blame anyone. he's just taken care of business the best he could.

Thank you my friends, God bless you all

Have a great holiday.

Jeffro

[JenyEliza]

OK I am pretty proud right now. Tonight was Honors Night at Mitchell's school. He made the walk in his full cap and gown. I was sitting in my seat praying about it really hard. The floor of the auditorium is ramped or slanted down going in and up comming out. It was steep enough that I was really concerned that maybe he could lose his balance. The program started at 7 pm but we had to have him there by 5:30. All the graduates assembled in the cafeteria at that time, so Mitch had to stand in line for an hour and a half before he could even make the walk. I know he had to be very tired. He walked down through there tall and proud, by God's Grace there were no problems or even a studder step. It was easy to tell he wasn't 100% but I was really proud or how he did. I could tell as he was walking he was having to concentrate, and that he was approaching his limit energy wise. There was a small glitch though. When they played the National Anthem all the guys had to remove their caps. Well Mitch's hands don't work good enough at this point to get that cap back own, so he walked out holding it. I wish maybe one of the other kids would have offered him some help but he didn't know any of them so he didn't ask and I am not sure he wants a stranger touching his head anyway. Even with that, all in all it was a huge sucess. He is worn out now and laying on the sofa watching TV with his mom. I thank God cause He knows I was certainly praying during that long wait. The graduation is Thursday night and I pray it goes that good.

He also had a good therapy week. He says these folks are working him harder then they did at Shepherds and I am praying that will pay off. Yall Mitch has been through this whole things without really complaing. I mean some of the behavior problems we have had aside, he has took it like a man. A couple times early on he looked at me and said " Daddy I wish I had not got shot in the head". That's been about the worst as far as complaing goes. He hasn't really cried about it or tried to blame anyone. he's just taken care of business the best he could.

Thank you my friends, God bless you all

Have a great holiday.

Jeffro

Good stuff! I'm so proud of Mitchell! His progress is nothing short of amazing. That he is walking with his graduating class is a miracle we weren't all that certain would be received way back in December when he was first shot.

Keep us updated and post some pics if you can!

Well done, Mitchell! Keep it up and work hard at PT!

Love,
Jeny

[jwil59]

Good stuff! I'm so proud of Mitchell! His progress is nothing short of amazing. That he is walking with his graduating class is a miracle we weren't all that certain would be received way back in December when he was first shot.

Keep us updated and post some pics if you can!

Well done, Mitchell! Keep it up and work hard at PT!

Love,
Jeny

We got a couple pics so hopefully darlene can post them for me.

We've come a long way since those days we spent at Sherherd Center early on, huh. I wish you guys could see him now.

Thank you jeny and I am still praying for you and the younguns

[rhet 2]

OK I am pretty proud right now. Tonight was Honors Night at Mitchell's school. He made the walk in his full cap and gown. I was sitting in my seat praying about it really hard. The floor of the auditorium is ramped or slanted down going in and up comming out. It was steep enough that I was really concerned that maybe he could lose his balance. The program started at 7 pm but we had to have him there by 5:30. All the graduates assembled in the cafeteria at that time, so Mitch had to stand in line for an hour and a half before he could even make the walk. I know he had to be very tired. He walked down through there tall and proud, by God's Grace there were no problems or even a studder step. It was easy to tell he wasn't 100% but I was really proud or how he did. I could tell as he was walking he was having to concentrate, and that he was approaching his limit energy wise. There was a small glitch though. When they played the National Anthem all the guys had to remove their caps. Well Mitch's hands don't work good enough at this point to get that cap back own, so he walked out holding it. I wish maybe one of the other kids would have offered him some help but he didn't know any of them so he didn't ask and I am not sure he wants a stranger touching his head anyway. Even with that, all in all it was a huge sucess. He is worn out now and laying on the sofa watching TV with his mom. I thank God cause He knows I was certainly praying during that long wait. The graduation is Thursday night and I pray it goes that good.

He also had a good therapy week. He says these folks are working him harder then they did at Shepherds and I am praying that will pay off. Yall Mitch has been through this whole things without really complaing. I mean some of the behavior problems we have had aside, he has took it like a man. A couple times early on he looked at me and said " Daddy I wish I had not got shot in the head". That's been about the worst as far as complaing goes. He hasn't really cried about it or tried to blame anyone. he's just taken care of business the best he could.

Thank you my friends, God bless you all

Have a great holiday.

Jeffro


Be proud, father.

And be humble, too, for surely the LORD has worked a great wonder for you.

And, in that wonder, He has blessed us all!

Prayers continue, dear friend.

But Mitch has so got this battle won.

As to the friends thing: teenagers are not mature enough to be friends. They don't yet know how. But, they learn. And Mitch will meet and make new, mature, fullly adult friends -- real friends -- as time goes by.

And, just because I'm a nosey old half-retired professor, what does Mitch plan next? I'd like to be praying for that next career move, too. I mean, college isn't everything, and I know lots of plenty smart and more than successful people who took other directions. But, if he's chosen a career that requires a degree, I'm here to help him all I can.

And that includes lots of prayers for his success, whatever his career choice.

You've raised a boy whom I am proud to see take his place in the world as a man I can trust.

It is good to share the earth with you both, good to know men like Mitch will take over as we grow too old to carry the load ourselves.

[doodle5]

Anytime I can help you plan the next step ahead... Post me.

I have two grown sons one with bipolar and another one with schizophrenia, I encourage them every step of the way.
1. married with twins coming
2. college and some on line courses and some not.
3. Discuss some avenues about college and learning for Mitch with his therapist.
4. Libraries have a mechanism like a TV only a book for handicap.
5. Explore all the avenues!! Call a large University that has a large library.
6. Special programs for handicap.

My prayers continue!!

Carlene

[jwil59]

Be proud, father.

And be humble, too, for surely the LORD has worked a great wonder for you.

And, in that wonder, He has blessed us all!

Prayers continue, dear friend.

But Mitch has so got this battle won.

As to the friends thing: teenagers are not mature enough to be friends. They don't yet know how. But, they learn. And Mitch will meet and make new, mature, fullly adult friends -- real friends -- as time goes by.

And, just because I'm a nosey old half-retired professor, what does Mitch plan next? I'd like to be praying for that next career move, too. I mean, college isn't everything, and I know lots of plenty smart and more than successful people who took other directions. But, if he's chosen a career that requires a degree, I'm here to help him all I can.

And that includes lots of prayers for his success, whatever his career choice.

You've raised a boy whom I am proud to see take his place in the world as a man I can trust.

It is good to share the earth with you both, good to know men like Mitch will take over as we grow too old to carry the load ourselves.

he had planned on joining the military but that's out now. College also isn't a likely choice. Hopefully he will be looking at some type of trade school vocation or going to a two year college. He has said that he would like to be a nurse, but I don't know if he can do that either because of the IVs and stuff. He also also mentioned being a nurse's assistant. He is definatly showing intrest in the medical field. Everything hinges on his improvement over the next 6 months or so.

Thank you for your prayers Rhet, God bless you and have a great holiday today

[jwil59]

Anytime I can help you plan the next step ahead... Post me.

I have two grown sons one with bipolar and another one with schizophrenia, I encourage them every step of the way.
1. married with twins coming
2. college and some on line courses and some not.
3. Discuss some avenues about college and learning for Mitch with his therapist.
4. Libraries have a mechanism like a TV only a book for handicap.
5. Explore all the avenues!! Call a large University that has a large library.
6. Special programs for handicap.

My prayers continue!!

Carlene

Thank you Carlene. We have lots of data that Shepherd Center gave us with options for help with education and what not. Things like requiring schools to give him others avenues of learning other then the normal conventional means. We are studying all that, at this point we really don't know where he will be in 4 or 5 months.

Thank you again my friend

[bella-day]

OK I am pretty proud right now. Tonight was Honors Night at Mitchell's school. He made the walk in his full cap and gown. I was sitting in my seat praying about it really hard. The floor of the auditorium is ramped or slanted down going in and up comming out. It was steep enough that I was really concerned that maybe he could lose his balance. The program started at 7 pm but we had to have him there by 5:30. All the graduates assembled in the cafeteria at that time, so Mitch had to stand in line for an hour and a half before he could even make the walk. I know he had to be very tired. He walked down through there tall and proud, by God's Grace there were no problems or even a studder step. It was easy to tell he wasn't 100% but I was really proud or how he did. I could tell as he was walking he was having to concentrate, and that he was approaching his limit energy wise. There was a small glitch though. When they played the National Anthem all the guys had to remove their caps. Well Mitch's hands don't work good enough at this point to get that cap back own, so he walked out holding it. I wish maybe one of the other kids would have offered him some help but he didn't know any of them so he didn't ask and I am not sure he wants a stranger touching his head anyway. Even with that, all in all it was a huge sucess. He is worn out now and laying on the sofa watching TV with his mom. I thank God cause He knows I was certainly praying during that long wait. The graduation is Thursday night and I pray it goes that good.

He also had a good therapy week. He says these folks are working him harder then they did at Shepherds and I am praying that will pay off. Yall Mitch has been through this whole things without really complaing. I mean some of the behavior problems we have had aside, he has took it like a man. A couple times early on he looked at me and said " Daddy I wish I had not got shot in the head". That's been about the worst as far as complaing goes. He hasn't really cried about it or tried to blame anyone. he's just taken care of business the best he could.

Thank you my friends, God bless you all

Have a great holiday.

Jeffro

A very proud moment for all of you. Mitch has come so far.

Prayers for his continued progress.

[rhet 2]

he had planned on joining the military but that's out now. College also isn't a likely choice. Hopefully he will be looking at some type of trade school vocation or going to a two year college. He has said that he would like to be a nurse, but I don't know if he can do that either because of the IVs and stuff. He also also mentioned being a nurse's assistant. He is definatly showing intrest in the medical field. Everything hinges on his improvement over the next 6 months or so.

Thank you for your prayers Rhet, God bless you and have a great holiday today

I hope your own holiday was utterly filled with family love and happiness.

It hardly matters what career path he chooses in terms of formal schooling.

What matters is that he be free to pursue and develop his own inherent and utterly unique talents and interests, drives and desires.

For this I do most humbly beseech the LORD Who gave him those talents and desires and inherent potentialities in the first place, shaping him to be Mitch the One and Only long before he drew his first breath.

[jwil59]

A very proud moment for all of you. Mitch has come so far.

Prayers for his continued progress.

yes he has came a long way, with a long way yet to go. I am proud of the way he has "taken in like a man".

Thank you for all your prayers and support bella. God bless you

[jwil59]

I hope your own holiday was utterly filled with family love and happiness.

It hardly matters what career path he chooses in terms of formal schooling.

What matters is that he be free to pursue and develop his own inherent and utterly unique talents and interests, drives and desires.

For this I do most humbly beseech the LORD Who gave him those talents and desires and inherent potentialities in the first place, shaping him to be Mitch the One and Only long before he drew his first breath.

We had a great holiday yesterday, thank you.

yeah God knew all this was gonna happen a long long time ago, an eternity ago in our terms.

I think Mitch's experiences will make him a really really good health care worker of some sort, I hope he does not lose that desire. He has experiences with good health care workers of most all vocation, and bad ones too. I pray that is the direction he will go in, but in the end it is upo to the Lord as you say.

Thank you so much for everything Rhet, including your leadership on this very conference. You and Bear are always in my prayers.

[rhet 2]

We had a great holiday yesterday, thank you.

yeah God knew all this was gonna happen a long long time ago, an eternity ago in our terms.

I think Mitch's experiences will make him a really really good health care worker of some sort, I hope he does not lose that desire. He has experiences with good health care workers of most all vocation, and bad ones too. I pray that is the direction he will go in, but in the end it is upo to the Lord as you say.

Thank you so much for everything Rhet, including your leadership on this very conference. You and Bear are always in my prayers.

So long as he follows the lead of the LORD, he'll do just fine and be a credit and blessing to us all.

Of this I am sure.

:hug:

[Trinka]

Hey! Has he thought of being some type of therapist?

Physical therapy is very important...so is counseling....great careers...

[jwil59]

So long as he follows the lead of the LORD, he'll do just fine and be a credit and blessing to us all.

Of this I am sure.

:hug:

That's a fact

[jwil59]

Hey! Has he thought of being some type of therapist?

Physical therapy is very important...so is counseling....great careers...

His experiences would make him a really good therapist. I pray he goes that way, but I guess it will be whatever the Lord has in store for him.

Thank you my friend

[jwil59]

Just about 5 short months ago we didn't know if Mitchell would live or die, or ever speak or walk again. By God's grace tonight was his high school graduation and everything went great. The graduates had to stand in line for an hour and a half before marching into the building so he had to be tired. I was working hard to fight off the tears as I saw him walk in, thinking about everything that has happened to get him there. He didn't miss a step, not even a studder step. It was quite emotional for our whole family. What can I say yall, this is anotrher major milestone not only in this recovery, but in his life period. I am so proud of him and the way he has persevered and overcame all those obstacles along the way. Five months ago I would have told you that could not happen, but God knew more than me as always. I am so proud.

Let there be no mistake my friends, this is a direct result of your faithfulness to pray for him and us. I have been trying all along to find the right words to thank you for that. We have reached many milestones together, I gotta say tonight is extra special though. God bless you all. Thank you so much

Jeff

[Kat-2]

Just about 5 short months ago we didn't know if Mitchell would live or die, or ever speak or walk again. By God's grace tonight was his high school graduation and everything went great. The graduates had to stand in line for an hour and a half before marching into the building so he had to be tired. I was working hard to fight off the tears as I saw him walk in, thinking about everything that has happened to get him there. He didn't miss a step, not even a studder step. It was quite emotional for our whole family. What can I say yall, this is anotrher major milestone not only in this recovery, but in his life period. I am so proud of him and the way he has persevered and overcame all those obstacles along the way. Five months ago I would have told you that could not happen, but God knew more than me as always. I am so proud.

Let there be no mistake my friends, this is a direct result of your faithfulness to pray for him and us. I have been trying all along to find the right words to thank you for that. We have reached many milestones together, I gotta say tonight is extra special though. God bless you all. Thank you so much

Jeff


WOW..What a beautiful testimony of faith. http://i19.photobucket.com/albums/b186/BFB/smile/adoreheart.gifhttp://i19.photobucket.com/albums/b186/BFB/smile/adoreheart.gif

[jwil59]

wow..what a beautiful testimony of faith. http://i19.photobucket.com/albums/b186/bfb/smile/adoreheart.gifhttp://i19.photobucket.com/albums/b186/bfb/smile/adoreheart.gif


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[itsrea]

Just about 5 short months ago we didn't know if Mitchell would live or die, or ever speak or walk again. By God's grace tonight was his high school graduation and everything went great. The graduates had to stand in line for an hour and a half before marching into the building so he had to be tired. I was working hard to fight off the tears as I saw him walk in, thinking about everything that has happened to get him there. He didn't miss a step, not even a studder step. It was quite emotional for our whole family. What can I say yall, this is anotrher major milestone not only in this recovery, but in his life period. I am so proud of him and the way he has persevered and overcame all those obstacles along the way. Five months ago I would have told you that could not happen, but God knew more than me as always. I am so proud.

Let there be no mistake my friends, this is a direct result of your faithfulness to pray for him and us. I have been trying all along to find the right words to thank you for that. We have reached many milestones together, I gotta say tonight is extra special though. God bless you all. Thank you so much

JeffOne of the gifts of the spirit is joy... you were gifted with it tonight. And I can just see your face when you were typing about how moving and gratifying the graduation must have been.

While there is (in essense) power in prayer us praying is not about Mitch getting better - the Lord did that allll on his own - our praying is about us being in obedience to the Lord.. so while I so very much appreciate your thanks and kind words, the glory goes to God.




P.S. don't forget a bouquet of flowers and a sentimental card to your lovely wife.. she had to be 'the critical, pushy parent'. She deserves a huge hand of applause for her part in these successes.

:)

[Kat-2]

Roll Tide



:D:D You betcha!!

[bella-day]

Just about 5 short months ago we didn't know if Mitchell would live or die, or ever speak or walk again. By God's grace tonight was his high school graduation and everything went great. The graduates had to stand in line for an hour and a half before marching into the building so he had to be tired. I was working hard to fight off the tears as I saw him walk in, thinking about everything that has happened to get him there. He didn't miss a step, not even a studder step. It was quite emotional for our whole family. What can I say yall, this is anotrher major milestone not only in this recovery, but in his life period. I am so proud of him and the way he has persevered and overcame all those obstacles along the way. Five months ago I would have told you that could not happen, but God knew more than me as always. I am so proud.

Let there be no mistake my friends, this is a direct result of your faithfulness to pray for him and us. I have been trying all along to find the right words to thank you for that. We have reached many milestones together, I gotta say tonight is extra special though. God bless you all. Thank you so much

Jeff

Jeny was so right when she labeled him Miracle Mitch! His has not been an easy journey. He has traveled light years from that dark, dark night in December to the crowning achievement of last night. I rejoice with you my friend.

Those strong and steady steps that propelled Mitch across that stage to accept a very hard earned diploma are the first in many to come. It was a young man that walked across the stage to accept that piece of paper that signifies his accomplishments.

A young man that has been blessed with a strength and resilience that is a rarity in this old world. Those blessings from our heavenly Father along with the undying love and faith of you and your bride is a recipe of nothing short of real success.

The journey does not end here of course. The gifts that make up the personality and vitality of this miracle we call Mitch are part a plan God has for him. I know you have concerns for his path in life but I have no doubt that as time moves on that path will become more and more clear. Never let this young man doubt his potential. Encourage him to use these lessons endured and learned to their full potential.

Thank you for sharing this portion of your life with us. From you I've learned some very valuable lessons I will take with me through out my life. Even in the darkest hours of this long journey you have shown us how a man of faith is able to set his own troubles aside to pray for those of another. That brand of love for your fellow human beings is more than admirable and something to which I aspire.

Enjoy this moment. It is one that was hard earned and more than deserved.

And to you Mitch...

:clap::clap::clap::clap::clap::clap:

Never doubt yourself for a moment. You have so much to share and so many wonderful things yet to accomplish. The steps you made last night were the first steps to a marvelous future.

[rhet 2]

Just about 5 short months ago we didn't know if Mitchell would live or die, or ever speak or walk again. By God's grace tonight was his high school graduation and everything went great. The graduates had to stand in line for an hour and a half before marching into the building so he had to be tired. I was working hard to fight off the tears as I saw him walk in, thinking about everything that has happened to get him there. He didn't miss a step, not even a studder step. It was quite emotional for our whole family. What can I say yall, this is anotrher major milestone not only in this recovery, but in his life period. I am so proud of him and the way he has persevered and overcame all those obstacles along the way. Five months ago I would have told you that could not happen, but God knew more than me as always. I am so proud.

Let there be no mistake my friends, this is a direct result of your faithfulness to pray for him and us. I have been trying all along to find the right words to thank you for that. We have reached many milestones together, I gotta say tonight is extra special though. God bless you all. Thank you so much

Jeff

Be proud, father, and shout Halleluja! You and Darlene have raised a man to walk in the paths of righteousness, to stand in the congregation of the righteous.

May the LORD satisfy your son with long life and show him His salvation, that he may serve the LORD all his days and, when his journey is done, his tasks completed, stand before the Throne of Mercy to hear our Christ proclaim, "Well done, thou good and faithful servant."

For, just as your own mother and father have seen the promise of the LORD brought to pass, so too have you and Mitch's mother: for He promised to bless unto the generations, child and grandchild and great-grandchild, one after another after another, through all the seasons of all the centuries alloted to mankind to walk this earth.

And surely it is good to see that promise kept as a family holds tight together against adversity, sheltered beneath His wings.

:clap: and :dance: in delight over the wonders of the Almighty.

[Seanachie]

Hello Jeff,

I can picture you and Darlene as you watched Mitch walk across that stage in my minds eye. Each and every one of you have earned this hard fought milestone in the life of one very special young Man.

Please give Mitch a holler for me and tell him I said; Well done Kid! You've done darn good! I'm sure you will be surprising us all many times over as your journey continues and we share your Parents Joy and yours too. I too am so proud of you Mitch and your accomplishments.

And to You and Darlene; I'm so proud of you two. You have overcome overwhelming odds to be at this point. I thank God from the deepest part of my Soul for that and the Blessings He has sent along to your Family.

Getting a bit misty eyed myself; so I'll be off.....

Be well my Friend,

Jim

[jwil59]

One of the gifts of the spirit is joy... you were gifted with it tonight. And I can just see your face when you were typing about how moving and gratifying the graduation must have been.

While there is (in essense) power in prayer us praying is not about Mitch getting better - the Lord did that allll on his own - our praying is about us being in obedience to the Lord.. so while I so very much appreciate your thanks and kind words, the glory goes to God.




P.S. don't forget a bouquet of flowers and a sentimental card to your lovely wife.. she had to be 'the critical, pushy parent'. She deserves a huge hand of applause for her part in these successes.

:)

yes to Him be the Glory, Honor, and Praise.

I am praying hard for you Rea

[jwil59]

Jeny was so right when she labeled him Miracle Mitch! His has not been an easy journey. He has traveled light years from that dark, dark night in December to the crowning achievement of last night. I rejoice with you my friend.

Those strong and steady steps that propelled Mitch across that stage to accept a very hard earned diploma are the first in many to come. It was a young man that walked across the stage to accept that piece of paper that signifies his accomplishments.

A young man that has been blessed with a strength and resilience that is a rarity in this old world. Those blessings from our heavenly Father along with the undying love and faith of you and your bride is a recipe of nothing short of real success.

The journey does not end here of course. The gifts that make up the personality and vitality of this miracle we call Mitch are part a plan God has for him. I know you have concerns for his path in life but I have no doubt that as time moves on that path will become more and more clear. Never let this young man doubt his potential. Encourage him to use these lessons endured and learned to their full potential.

Thank you for sharing this portion of your life with us. From you I've learned some very valuable lessons I will take with me through out my life. Even in the darkest hours of this long journey you have shown us how a man of faith is able to set his own troubles aside to pray for those of another. That brand of love for your fellow human beings is more than admirable and something to which I aspire.

Enjoy this moment. It is one that was hard earned and more than deserved.

And to you Mitch...

:clap::clap::clap::clap::clap::clap:

Never doubt yourself for a moment. You have so much to share and so many wonderful things yet to accomplish. The steps you made last night were the first steps to a marvelous future.

Thank you for those kinds words as well as all your prayers and support.

Jeny is certainly right to call him miracle mitch, she has seen it with her own eyes. her and the kids saw him early on when things were still up in the air, and then some time later after much improvement. It is indeed a miracle

[jwil59]

Be proud, father, and shout Halleluja! You and Darlene have raised a man to walk in the paths of righteousness, to stand in the congregation of the righteous.

May the LORD satisfy your son with long life and show him His salvation, that he may serve the LORD all his days and, when his journey is done, his tasks completed, stand before the Throne of Mercy to hear our Christ proclaim, "Well done, thou good and faithful servant."

For, just as your own mother and father have seen the promise of the LORD brought to pass, so too have you and Mitch's mother: for He promised to bless unto the generations, child and grandchild and great-grandchild, one after another after another, through all the seasons of all the centuries alloted to mankind to walk this earth.

And surely it is good to see that promise kept as a family holds tight together against adversity, sheltered beneath His wings.

:clap: and :dance: in delight over the wonders of the Almighty.

Thanks Rhet, I am very proud. last night was very exciting.

Thank you for everything my friend

[jwil59]

Hello Jeff,

I can picture you and Darlene as you watched Mitch walk across that stage in my minds eye. Each and every one of you have earned this hard fought milestone in the life of one very special young Man.

Please give Mitch a holler for me and tell him I said; Well done Kid! You've done darn good! I'm sure you will be surprising us all many times over as your journey continues and we share your Parents Joy and yours too. I too am so proud of you Mitch and your accomplishments.

And to You and Darlene; I'm so proud of you two. You have overcome overwhelming odds to be at this point. I thank God from the deepest part of my Soul for that and the Blessings He has sent along to your Family.

Getting a bit misty eyed myself; so I'll be off.....

Be well my Friend,

Jim

I still get teary eyed today thinking about it too Jim. Thank you buddy

[ThrowCop]

It is good for a man whose faith has been tested to see that something that brought me to pray for the 1st time in years (out loud that is) has become a testament to the power of prayer.

It is heartwarming that my question of why such a good & gracious servant of the Lord had something so terrible has been answered. It is in your sig, Jeff:


WHEN YOU FIND SOMEONE TO LOVE IN THIS WORLD YOU BETTER HANG ON TOOTH AND NAIL

May God continue to bless you & yours.

[JenyEliza]

Thank you for those kinds words as well as all your prayers and support.

Jeny is certainly right to call him miracle mitch, she has seen it with her own eyes. her and the kids saw him early on when things were still up in the air, and then some time later after much improvement. It is indeed a miracle

The first time we met Mitch, he was re-learning how to hold his head up. He couldn't use his hands. Couldn't move himself out of bed into a chair, they had to use the wonder-chair lift. He couldn't walk. Couldn't go to the bathroom without help. He had to have someone put his ear buds in his ears for him so he could listen to music. Couldn't turn the volume up or even turn the ipod on. Couldn't check the time on his cell phone or hold it to his ear to talk, someone had to hold the phone to his ear for him. His speech was slow and measured and he used few words.

And....now he is a high school graduate. He walked across that stage and got his diploma on his own. Nothing short of God's grace brought this to pass. Mitch certainly is Miracle Mitch. He is living proof that miracles actually DO happen--even in these modern times.

God bless you all...
:hug: :pray: :hug:
Jeny

[Seanachie]

Hello Jeff,

How is that young Man doing? He may have had a brief let-down after the Graduation festivities. Just knowing that he walked that stage on his own has also given him a great confidence boost as darn well it should.

Please just let him know that I was asking about him and give him a holler for me.

Be well my Friend,

Jim

[jwil59]

The first time we met Mitch, he was re-learning how to hold his head up. He couldn't use his hands. Couldn't move himself out of bed into a chair, they had to use the wonder-chair lift. He couldn't walk. Couldn't go to the bathroom without help. He had to have someone put his ear buds in his ears for him so he could listen to music. Couldn't turn the volume up or even turn the ipod on. Couldn't check the time on his cell phone or hold it to his ear to talk, someone had to hold the phone to his ear for him. His speech was slow and measured and he used few words.

And....now he is a high school graduate. He walked across that stage and got his diploma on his own. Nothing short of God's grace brought this to pass. Mitch certainly is Miracle Mitch. He is living proof that miracles actually DO happen--even in these modern times.

God bless you all...
:hug: :pray: :hug:
Jeny

I remember those days. God is good for sure

God bless you and yours Jeny

[jwil59]

Hello Jeff,

How is that young Man doing? He may have had a brief let-down after the Graduation festivities. Just knowing that he walked that stage on his own has also given him a great confidence boost as darn well it should.

Please just let him know that I was asking about him and give him a holler for me.

Be well my Friend,

Jim

he's doing good buddy. very busy with summer school and therapy but maybe that's a good thing

Thanks Jim, God bless you bro

[jwil59]

I asked Goodlife to remove the sticky from this thread. I think it best to leave the cancer thread at the top at this point. I also don't want to stick this thread over all the other important ones

The sticky served it's purpose though and I am thankful.

[Seanachie]

Hello Jeff,

You are always a fine example of how compassionate a person can be. It matters little whether this is a 'sticky' thread or not. There are a wealth of fine people who follow this thread and Mitch's progress. That methinks will continue.

I'm sure you've noticed that I don't go into the 'Cancer Thread'. I've tried on several occasions but I've witnessed so much heartbreak in seeing good friends pass that I just can't go there at this point. My brain is just not equipped for that right now. Perhaps that will pass in time. Your exemplary lesson in compassion is, I hope, a 1st step for me.

Be well my Friend,

Jim

[Seanachie]

Hello again Jeff,

Mitch's B'Day is coming up if I recall correctly. Give him my best B'day wishes when it's appropriate to do so.

HAPPY B'DAY MITCH!

I just hope my memory hasn't failed me and it's in June.

Be well my Friend,

Jim

[stoked]

God designed his children well Mitch. Your son is living proof.

[EmmanuelGoldstein]

Just about 5 short months ago we didn't know if Mitchell would live or die, or ever speak or walk again. By God's grace tonight was his high school graduation and everything went great. The graduates had to stand in line for an hour and a half before marching into the building so he had to be tired. I was working hard to fight off the tears as I saw him walk in, thinking about everything that has happened to get him there. He didn't miss a step, not even a studder step. It was quite emotional for our whole family. What can I say yall, this is anotrher major milestone not only in this recovery, but in his life period. I am so proud of him and the way he has persevered and overcame all those obstacles along the way. Five months ago I would have told you that could not happen, but God knew more than me as always. I am so proud.

Let there be no mistake my friends, this is a direct result of your faithfulness to pray for him and us. I have been trying all along to find the right words to thank you for that. We have reached many milestones together, I gotta say tonight is extra special though. God bless you all. Thank you so much

Jeff
That is awesome, Jeff. Thank you for sharing :hug:

[jwil59]

Thank you guys for all your prayers and support.

Mitch is doing pretty well. he isa very busy with taking summer school and therapy, and that's a good thing. Some of his old friends are starting to come around, and I am not sure that is all that good.

Please keep praying for him and his mother. God bless you all

Jeff

[blazer]

Hey Jeff! I book marked this page and will try to keep it at the top for you!

[MoleculesRMe]

Just about 5 short months ago we didn't know if Mitchell would live or die, or ever speak or walk again. By God's grace tonight was his high school graduation and everything went great. The graduates had to stand in line for an hour and a half before marching into the building so he had to be tired. I was working hard to fight off the tears as I saw him walk in, thinking about everything that has happened to get him there. He didn't miss a step, not even a studder step. It was quite emotional for our whole family. What can I say yall, this is anotrher major milestone not only in this recovery, but in his life period. I am so proud of him and the way he has persevered and overcame all those obstacles along the way. Five months ago I would have told you that could not happen, but God knew more than me as always. I am so proud.

Let there be no mistake my friends, this is a direct result of your faithfulness to pray for him and us. I have been trying all along to find the right words to thank you for that. We have reached many milestones together, I gotta say tonight is extra special though. God bless you all. Thank you so much

Jeff

Fantastic! This is still such a heartwrenching and tear-jerking thing to read about, J. I can't even begin to imagine living it. Wow!

Congratulations to Mitchell and you all! What an accomplishment! You have my admiration and continued prayers.

[traditional_woman]

Let this thread and your lives be a living testimony of what God can do, how he can move, and how he can teach.

I am so happy to hear these latest updates. Sounds like you and your family have been refined!

[jwil59]

Hey Jeff! I book marked this page and will try to keep it at the top for you!

Thank you

[jwil59]

Fantastic! This is still such a heartwrenching and tear-jerking thing to read about, J. I can't even begin to imagine living it. Wow!

Congratulations to Mitchell and you all! What an accomplishment! You have my admiration and continued prayers.

It has been a roller coaster ride for sure, but through it we have been blessed beyond measure.

Thank you

[jwil59]

Let this thread and your lives be a living testimony of what God can do, how he can move, and how he can teach.

I am so happy to hear these latest updates. Sounds like you and your family have been refined!

Yes God has certainly worked a miracle here. We are excited to see how it will all play out in the end. No matter what, we know it is for His glory and our good.

Thank you

[USMCmom]

Jeff...
It has been a long 5 months for you and your family. Everyday I am so very thankful for the miracle the Lord granted Mitchell and it was indeed a miracle! Thank you for allowing us to share in his journey...it has been an honor! I am praying that this year will be full of many, many more blessings!

God Bless:hug:
Luv ya,
Kelly

[jwil59]

Jeff...
It has been a long 5 months for you and your family. Everyday I am so very thankful for the miracle the Lord granted Mitchell and it was indeed a miracle! Thank you for allowing us to share in his journey...it has been an honor! I am praying that this year will be full of many, many more blessings!

God Bless:hug:
Luv ya,
Kelly

Thank you Kelly. It has been a long 5 or 6 months but God's grace has seen us through.

[blazer]

God's Grace is always just what we need! We get down and out but He is always there to pick us up and wrap His loving arms around us! We never shed a tear that God doesn't see. We never pray a prayer that He doesn't hear! We never have a hurt that he doesn't feel! When we feel down cast and forgotten, we need to remember He loves us and forgives us! He thinks about us when the person we love the most in this world forgets us. I don't need to use Jesus as a spare tire and just pick Him up when I am sad or alone and afraid. He is just waiting for me to reach out and accept the love and comfort only He can offer! I am truly thankful for this! I claim His promises right now! I claim His peace that passes all understanding. I claim His love that far surpasses anything we could ever feel on this earth! I claim His grace and mercy and forgiveness! Without all of this, I would be lost! I claim the healing balm of his love that can mend a broken heart! I take all my worries, all my cares, all my pain, all my losses and I place them at my savior's feet!

[JenyEliza]

Thank you guys for all your prayers and support.

Mitch is doing pretty well. he isa very busy with taking summer school and therapy, and that's a good thing. Some of his old friends are starting to come around, and I am not sure that is all that good.

Please keep praying for him and his mother. God bless you all

Jeff

Mitch is a good kid, Jeff. He's smart and after all he's been through, I don't think he's gonna waste the second chance God has given him. He'll sort through the "friends" and figure out who is worth keeping and who isn't. I sure understand your concerns, though.

Its a good thing that therapy and summer school are keeping him busy! We're doing summer school too. I'm glad the kids have some place they have to be every day and can't stay up all night and sleep all day. I hate summer because of that....

Keep us posted on Mitchell's progress. I include you all in my prayers every day.

:hug: :pray:

Jeny

[jwil59]

God's Grace is always just what we need! We get down and out but He is always there to pick us up and wrap His loving arms around us! We never shed a tear that God doesn't see. We never pray a prayer that He doesn't hear! We never have a hurt that he doesn't feel! When we feel down cast and forgotten, we need to remember He loves us and forgives us! He thinks about us when the person we love the most in this world forgets us. I don't need to use Jesus as a spare tire and just pick Him up when I am sad or alone and afraid. He is just waiting for me to reach out and accept the love and comfort only He can offer! I am truly thankful for this! I claim His promises right now! I claim His peace that passes all understanding. I claim His love that far surpasses anything we could ever feel on this earth! I claim His grace and mercy and forgiveness! Without all of this, I would be lost! I claim the healing balm of his love that can mend a broken heart! I take all my worries, all my cares, all my pain, all my losses and I place them at my savior's feet!

I claim those promises too, and I believe them to be true. This thread is evidence that His grace is suffucent.

God bless you sis

[jwil59]

Mitch is a good kid, Jeff. He's smart and after all he's been through, I don't think he's gonna waste the second chance God has given him. He'll sort through the "friends" and figure out who is worth keeping and who isn't. I sure understand your concerns, though.

That is my prayer, that he will make good decesions in that area, and all others too.

Its a good thing that therapy and summer school are keeping him busy! We're doing summer school too. I'm glad the kids have some place they have to be every day and can't stay up all night and sleep all day. I hate summer because of that....

Keep us posted on Mitchell's progress. I include you all in my prayers every day.

:hug: :pray:

Jeny

Thank you jeny, I know you are praying for us as well as everyone else and it means the world to us. I just don't know what we would have done without you guys. This very forum is one of the greatest gifts God has chosen to put on us.

[jwil59]

Mitchell is doing well, still very busy threough this week. There have been some tiffs between him and Darlene, and I would appreciate your continued prayers in that area as well as his recovery. That support and those prayers is one of the MAJOR factors in this recovery. Thank you all.

I want to start posting some of the blessing from all this, and give us all something specific to praise God about as related to the past 6 months. So from time to time I am going to post some things that show evidence of God's grace and mercy. I might have talked about some of these things before but I think it is still important for us to count the blessings.

1. - The night of the accident, as Mitchell was being transported to the 2nd hospital by ambulance ( the weather was too bad to fly) he had seizures the whole way, it was about a 30 minute trip by ambulance. Well since then there have been no evidence of any siezures, which would have caused serious problems. If you remember Mitch's roomate at Shepherd, Elizah Young, died from complications related to a seizure. They say that more time that passes since the accident without a seizure, then the chances of having a seizure decrease. It has been almost 6 months and I praise God Almighty that there have been no seizures since that first night. Many many people that suffer from TBIs have to worry about seizures their whole lives. Praise God.

More blessing to come, feel free to post yourself if you like.

Praise God!!!

[blazer]

I claim those promises too, and I believe them to be true. This thread is evidence that His grace is suffucent.

God bless you sis

Yes brother it is! :hug:

[agent_86]

Jeff,

If I'm wondering onto an area I shouldn't, please forgive and ignore me. However, you had mentioned once that the injury could have been the result of foul play.

Can I get some of the back story. I have been curious as to what ever happened and what was the cause.

Again, just a curiosity.

Thanks.

[VCaddy05]

Jwil59 I never knew what your signatur was all about. I just stumbled opon this thread and am shocked, I thank God that he is getting better and wish you and your family the best.

[jwil59]

Jeff,

If I'm wondering onto an area I shouldn't, please forgive and ignore me. However, you had mentioned once that the injury could have been the result of foul play.

Can I get some of the back story. I have been curious as to what ever happened and what was the cause.

Again, just a curiosity.

Thanks.

There were four kids in a room at a party, somewhere they should not have been. There was an old 38 snubnose revolver with a bad firing pin. To make a long story short Mitch got shot in the head. Now two of the other kids say that the gun was in Mitch's hand when it fired. The bullet entered on the right side of his head, but he is left handed so that made us question what actually happened. The fourth kid ran as soon as it happened. The cops didn't really make a huge effort to find out what actually happened. The local paper said a juvenile had been accidently shot while he was with his family in a motel room, which isn't true. After several months the kid that ran talked to Mitch and his story of what happened is different than what the other two said. The cops never even made an effort to find that kid. I don't think there was any intent from any of those kids to kill my son. I do believe it was an accident but we are not sure anymore as to what actually happened, who had the gun in his/her hand when Mitch got shot. Mitch does remember that two of those three kids were fighting that night, so maybe they were fighting over that gun and Mitch got hit by accident. I dunno man, there are many different scnarios as to what could have happened. We will probably never know.

[rhet 2]

There were four kids in a room at a party, somewhere they should not have been. There was an old 38 snubnose revolver with a bad firing pin. To make a long story short Mitch got shot in the head. Now two of the other kids say that the gun was in Mitch's hand when it fired. The bullet entered on the right side of his head, but he is left handed so that made us question what actually happened. The fourth kid ran as soon as it happened. The cops didn't really make a huge effort to find out what actually happened. The local paper said a juvenile had been accidently shot while he was with his family in a motel room, which isn't true. After several months the kid that ran talked to Mitch and his story of what happened is different than what the other two said. The cops never even made an effort to find that kid. I don't think there was any intent from any of those kids to kill my son. I do believe it was an accident but we are not sure anymore as to what actually happened, who had the gun in his/her hand when Mitch got shot. Mitch does remember that two of those three kids were fighting that night, so maybe they were fighting over that gun and Mitch got hit by accident. I dunno man, there are many different scnarios as to what could have happened. We will probably never know.

And the other three boys are also in our prayers.

However it came to pass, they need the LORD's help getting past the trauma and into the stability and peace of heart and mind that comes only through His infinite and almighty friendship with us.

And the relationship with his mother remains in prayer, as well. But take heart: Mitch wouldn't be a normal kid if he didn't have a tiff or two with his parents now and again. All part of becoming a man instead of a kid. :hug:

[agent_86]

There were four kids in a room at a party, somewhere they should not have been. There was an old 38 snubnose revolver with a bad firing pin. To make a long story short Mitch got shot in the head. Now two of the other kids say that the gun was in Mitch's hand when it fired. The bullet entered on the right side of his head, but he is left handed so that made us question what actually happened. The fourth kid ran as soon as it happened. The cops didn't really make a huge effort to find out what actually happened. The local paper said a juvenile had been accidently shot while he was with his family in a motel room, which isn't true. After several months the kid that ran talked to Mitch and his story of what happened is different than what the other two said. The cops never even made an effort to find that kid. I don't think there was any intent from any of those kids to kill my son. I do believe it was an accident but we are not sure anymore as to what actually happened, who had the gun in his/her hand when Mitch got shot. Mitch does remember that two of those three kids were fighting that night, so maybe they were fighting over that gun and Mitch got hit by accident. I dunno man, there are many different scnarios as to what could have happened. We will probably never know.

Well, you have your son. That's the important thing.

Thank you for clearing that up. It was something that kept nagging at me, being the curious type.

Thank you.

[itsrea]

Having been the mom that sat in the hospital rooms with a child just out of surgery I know that things were required of me that didn't make Shannon happy. He was a baby tho and hardened to hospital routines and rules by the time he could have picked a fight with me about any issue, so didn't. That's not to say that he didn't rebel at home against rehabilitations that were required.

I feel for Darlene. I know no matter how tough we seem our insides are mush at seeing our baby (no matter how old they are) there, needing help in ways that we are useless to meet and having to face that this is not what we planned for in our labors and years of raising him or her to be the kind of person God wants them to be.

So we get busy with the ways we CAN help, and sometimes determination drives us to be tougher then maybe we should be - and sometimes the child rebels against things that are neccesary in ways that make us even more determined.. after all, it's not just today that counts, there are all of his tomorrow at stake and we cannot fail, cannot let them down.

I know no matter what else we're feeling we have to get busy and help this child, even if the child hates us for it. The very idea that my son could hate me quelled my heart then and still, to this day, makes it tighten into a wad that no doctor could recognize.

There are so many complicated issues to try to express.. but maybe the Lord will help you, as head of your Christian household and family, to find a way to express them so that Mitch can accept and understand what mom is all about, what she's up to. If no other way then simply by telling him she is about God's work.

I remember after Shannon's first surgery - he was 18 months old and almost died. Infants have an inborn drive to survive, so if they give up you know it's serious and Shannon gave up. We had to raise his pain level so high it forced him out of the nowhere he had gone to get away from the pain, the fear and sense of abandonment he was feeling. The nurses made me pinch his shoulders and slap his cheeks to force him back to reality. He eventually came back to us, and was his sweet self. Then about three months after surgery he turned into a little hellion, even so far as to kick me.. he was rebellious and sassy, refusing just about anything I tried. When we arrived for his next surgery the nurse asked me how it had gone at home and when I told her she told me he waited to make sure he was safe, that you weren't going to take him to this awful place and let people hurt him again, then he got even.

While understandable I was forced to deal with his actions because it is never, I repeat, NEVER ok to take one's anger or frustration or pain out on another person. My rule became if you are feeling mean then do something to make yourself feel better because your behavior is unacceptable in this family.

You all remain in my prayers.

[bella-day]

Mitchell is doing well, still very busy threough this week. There have been some tiffs between him and Darlene, and I would appreciate your continued prayers in that area as well as his recovery. That support and those prayers is one of the MAJOR factors in this recovery. Thank you all.

I want to start posting some of the blessing from all this, and give us all something specific to praise God about as related to the past 6 months. So from time to time I am going to post some things that show evidence of God's grace and mercy. I might have talked about some of these things before but I think it is still important for us to count the blessings.

1. - The night of the accident, as Mitchell was being transported to the 2nd hospital by ambulance ( the weather was too bad to fly) he had seizures the whole way, it was about a 30 minute trip by ambulance. Well since then there have been no evidence of any siezures, which would have caused serious problems. If you remember Mitch's roomate at Shepherd, Elizah Young, died from complications related to a seizure. They say that more time that passes since the accident without a seizure, then the chances of having a seizure decrease. It has been almost 6 months and I praise God Almighty that there have been no seizures since that first night. Many many people that suffer from TBIs have to worry about seizures their whole lives. Praise God.

More blessing to come, feel free to post yourself if you like.

Praise God!!!

Tiffs, the bane of the teenage years.

Perfectly normal they are although I would think under the circumstances can be more than frustrating. Just drawing from my own parental experiences here...so please bear with me.

Mitch is your youngest isn't he? The youngest is the toughest to let go of in many respects. We dream of they day that our children reach age of maturity and then when they do we miss them being children and of course by that point you are so accustomed to seeing to their every need so as parents we end up having somewhat of a void develop in our lives.

But with Mitch, you guys had an event that changed that regular progression. He went from a somewhat self-sufficient adult back to a point where all his physical and emotional needs had to be seen to by you and Darlene. It had to be so difficult for all of you.

So now you are confronted with a young man who longs to have all that independence back but has this stumbling block that has been laid before him. Oh the frustration!

I'm no psychologist and do not play one on the internet. I'm just a parent that has been through the 13-16 year old thing with my kids. I would suspect that this event has thrown the relationship between Darlene and Mitch to that point in time emotionally speaking.

He longs for his independence and Darlene is well aware that he needs more help than he is willing to admit.

And to top it off...as primary caregiver Darlene is a soft target. Mitch knows she isn't going to throw her hands up and walk away. He know she loves him way too much for that. I would think the tiffs you describe are part of a natural progression but I'm sure that doesn't make it any easier to experience.

Prayers for Mitch's continued progress and for Darlene to have the strength of Goliath and the patience of Job.

[jwil59]

Jwil59 I never knew what your signatur was all about. I just stumbled opon this thread and am shocked, I thank God that he is getting better and wish you and your family the best.

Thank you very much

[jwil59]

And the other three boys are also in our prayers.

However it came to pass, they need the LORD's help getting past the trauma and into the stability and peace of heart and mind that comes only through His infinite and almighty friendship with us.

And the relationship with his mother remains in prayer, as well. But take heart: Mitch wouldn't be a normal kid if he didn't have a tiff or two with his parents now and again. All part of becoming a man instead of a kid. :hug:

yes you are right, much of it is just being a kid. That is magnified by the injury and all the frustration he is feeling. Thank you for your prayers and support Rhet, and you and the bear are in my prayers as well

[jwil59]

Well, you have your son. That's the important thing.

Thank you for clearing that up. It was something that kept nagging at me, being the curious type.

Thank you.

yes that is the important thing for sure. God has been mercifull

[jwil59]

Having been the mom that sat in the hospital rooms with a child just out of surgery I know that things were required of me that didn't make Shannon happy. He was a baby tho and hardened to hospital routines and rules by the time he could have picked a fight with me about any issue, so didn't. That's not to say that he didn't rebel at home against rehabilitations that were required.

I feel for Darlene. I know no matter how tough we seem our insides are mush at seeing our baby (no matter how old they are) there, needing help in ways that we are useless to meet and having to face that this is not what we planned for in our labors and years of raising him or her to be the kind of person God wants them to be.

So we get busy with the ways we CAN help, and sometimes determination drives us to be tougher then maybe we should be - and sometimes the child rebels against things that are neccesary in ways that make us even more determined.. after all, it's not just today that counts, there are all of his tomorrow at stake and we cannot fail, cannot let them down.

I know no matter what else we're feeling we have to get busy and help this child, even if the child hates us for it. The very idea that my son could hate me quelled my heart then and still, to this day, makes it tighten into a wad that no doctor could recognize.

There are so many complicated issues to try to express.. but maybe the Lord will help you, as head of your Christian household and family, to find a way to express them so that Mitch can accept and understand what mom is all about, what she's up to. If no other way then simply by telling him she is about God's work.

I remember after Shannon's first surgery - he was 18 months old and almost died. Infants have an inborn drive to survive, so if they give up you know it's serious and Shannon gave up. We had to raise his pain level so high it forced him out of the nowhere he had gone to get away from the pain, the fear and sense of abandonment he was feeling. The nurses made me pinch his shoulders and slap his cheeks to force him back to reality. He eventually came back to us, and was his sweet self. Then about three months after surgery he turned into a little hellion, even so far as to kick me.. he was rebellious and sassy, refusing just about anything I tried. When we arrived for his next surgery the nurse asked me how it had gone at home and when I told her she told me he waited to make sure he was safe, that you weren't going to take him to this awful place and let people hurt him again, then he got even.

While understandable I was forced to deal with his actions because it is never, I repeat, NEVER ok to take one's anger or frustration or pain out on another person. My rule became if you are feeling mean then do something to make yourself feel better because your behavior is unacceptable in this family.

You all remain in my prayers.

Thank you Rea. I do understand that in the end as head of this household I am responsible. All I can say is I am working hard on that and praying alot.

Thank you and I am praying for you sis

[jwil59]

Tiffs, the bane of the teenage years.

Perfectly normal they are although I would think under the circumstances can be more than frustrating. Just drawing from my own parental experiences here...so please bear with me.

Mitch is your youngest isn't he? The youngest is the toughest to let go of in many respects. We dream of they day that our children reach age of maturity and then when they do we miss them being children and of course by that point you are so accustomed to seeing to their every need so as parents we end up having somewhat of a void develop in our lives.

But with Mitch, you guys had an event that changed that regular progression. He went from a somewhat self-sufficient adult back to a point where all his physical and emotional needs had to be seen to by you and Darlene. It had to be so difficult for all of you.

So now you are confronted with a young man who longs to have all that independence back but has this stumbling block that has been laid before him. Oh the frustration!

I'm no psychologist and do not play one on the internet. I'm just a parent that has been through the 13-16 year old thing with my kids. I would suspect that this event has thrown the relationship between Darlene and Mitch to that point in time emotionally speaking.

He longs for his independence and Darlene is well aware that he needs more help than he is willing to admit.

And to top it off...as primary caregiver Darlene is a soft target. Mitch knows she isn't going to throw her hands up and walk away. He know she loves him way too much for that. I would think the tiffs you describe are part of a natural progression but I'm sure that doesn't make it any easier to experience.

Prayers for Mitch's continued progress and for Darlene to have the strength of Goliath and the patience of Job.

Thank you so much. She really needs some prayer right now, things are tough. We are just trusting that God has it all worked out in the long run, and trying our dead level best to do our part as He wants us to.

Thank you very much

[rhet 2]

Thank you so much. She really needs some prayer right now, things are tough. We are just trusting that God has it all worked out in the long run, and trying our dead level best to do our part as He wants us to.

Thank you very much

:hug:

She's got mine with a whole heart.

James, chapter 1.

Especially vs. 4: "let endurance have its perfect result, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing"

Combined with vs. 5: "if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all men generously and without reproach, and it will be given to him." In this case, to him and to her.

Since I know you and Darlene are both seeking wisdom with a whole heart, I just know He'll give it to you most generously, more than enough to see your entire family through these trials of your faith.

To quote someone I cherish, "Hang tough," you two. Your faith is strong. You grow in patience and in hope and in wisdom.

And all those who weep because of our own heavy trials take heart through you. :hug:

[itsrea]

Thank you Rea. I do understand that in the end as head of this household I am responsible. All I can say is I am working hard on that and praying alot.

Thank you and I am praying for you sisI'm glad you're praying and not attempting to be the bridge, explaining one to the other, to make peace. That's God's work.. any bridge needs be between the two of them, and any one He builds will hold up forever.

There is one scripture and one scripture only in reference to how a child is told to behave towards his parents: Obey your parents in all things.

There is no leeway in that.

You just be the person that lovingly but firmly sets down the rules and makes sure they're adhered to.

God can do the rest.

[GA_LP]

Still here for you compadre.

Bump for Mitch

[jwil59]

:hug:

She's got mine with a whole heart.

James, chapter 1.

Especially vs. 4: "let endurance have its perfect result, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing"

Combined with vs. 5: "if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all men generously and without reproach, and it will be given to him." In this case, to him and to her.

Since I know you and Darlene are both seeking wisdom with a whole heart, I just know He'll give it to you most generously, more than enough to see your entire family through these trials of your faith.

To quote someone I cherish, "Hang tough," you two. Your faith is strong. You grow in patience and in hope and in wisdom.

And all those who weep because of our own heavy trials take heart through you. :hug:

We are hanging in there like a wet noodle my friend. Thank you so much

I swear I don't see how the people without our faith make it sis, I just don't see how they survive, I really don't.

[jwil59]

I'm glad you're praying and not attempting to be the bridge, explaining one to the other, to make peace. That's God's work.. any bridge needs be between the two of them, and any one He builds will hold up forever.

There is one scripture and one scripture only in reference to how a child is told to behave towards his parents: Obey your parents in all things.

There is no leeway in that.

You just be the person that lovingly but firmly sets down the rules and makes sure they're adhered to.

God can do the rest.

Darlene and I try to stay united on all that stuff. I understand what you are saying about the bridge and I won't let that happen.

yes God will do it, I cannot even fathom where you and I would be right now without that faith

[jwil59]

Still here for you compadre.

Bump for Mitch

Thank you, I appreciate that

[EmmanuelGoldstein]

My daughter and I continue to pray for Mitch and all of you. Now and then she'll ask for updates and is thrilled at how far he's come (as am I). Take care, Jeff.

[midatlantic]

Jeff: still thinking of Mitch, you and family and praying. There is so much we can't understand and the pain is hard to handle at times despite our prayers. Still, I hope my prayers for Mitch are heard. Mitch is my youngest daughter's age and it probably goes without saying that I sense the challenges ahead.

Jane

[doodle5]

Jeff and Darlene,

One minute and one step at a time with Christ under you, all around you, in front of you, in back of you and most of all inside of you!! Psalms:121 and Psalms 139.

With God all things are possible!

My prayers for both of you.

Carlene

[Calibabe]

Jeff and Darlene,

Sorry I haven't been here in a while but I had my own issues of health that I had to deal with. Spent three out of four weekends in May in the hospital and last weekend in bed. Between my Crohn's disease and my lower back problems it has been a real treat. :rolleyes:

However all that aside I have never stopped praying and asking Our Lord to watch over all of you as I knew that Mitchell would be coming home in May.

I hope that all is going well and that as he adjusts and it is an adjustment going from hospital to rehab to home, that things will be at a more settled pace for you and your family. I am sure that it does your heart good to know that he has come this far when that fateful night, that all of us found out what happened, we all hit our knees in prayer, not knowing what the outcome would be.

There has been so much tragedy this year, yet I look at Mitchell and say "Here is our example". You have to have faith when you look at him and know that there truly is a God and that his mercy and our faith in Him are intertwined.

I will continue with you on your journey in good times and in bad. I just wanted you to know that I hadn't forgotten.

God bless you.

[Calibabe]

We are hanging in there like a wet noodle my friend. Thank you so much

I swear I don't see how the people without our faith make it sis, I just don't see how they survive, I really don't.

Oh people without faith get by, but that is just it, they get by.

Those of us with faith, we live. That is the difference.

I would much rather live, feel the pain, the trials that are set before me and then attempt to hurdle them, then get by any day of the week. Do I fall? You bet I do. All the time. Then I just get up, set that hurdle back on it right side and attempt it again. If I fall again, I go back and do the same.

Faith is such an important part of my life that I can't imagine it not being there. I guess I learned that lesson from my son when he went through all of his stuff almost two years ago. Now I look at him and I wonder in amazement that he has turned out to be such a great young man. My husband and I are very proud of him. He will be going to the community college within the next several month and getting his EMT/Paramedic stuff out of the way and then he will be licensed. Then it is onto CPAT (Candidate Physical Ability Testing) which is really going to put him through the wringer to see if he has what it takes to become a firefighter. His goal is to get into a department by the age of 25. He has done enough reading on line and is on several message boards where there are firefighters and it seems that most departments don't want real young candidates, but those in their mid 20's. I guess it is maturity level is better at that point. In any event he does have a plan set out and I know him well enough to know that he will follow this. I joked with him when the Santa Barbara fires were raging. I said the day I stop watching the fires is when he becomes a fireman. It is true. I will not watch any of that coverage if I know he is out there. It will scare me half to death. My husband was like "Oh you'll watch, cause you will be a mother hen looking for her young". Maybe he is right.

I guess my faith will have to carry me at that time as well. All I know is that when he becomes a fireman, St Florian, the patron saint for fireman, will be hearing a lot from me. :D

You be well my friend. Your faith in Our Lord has been tested time and time again. He has seen you through the really bad points in all of this and he surely will be there every step of the way now. God never leaves anything unfinished. You know that and I know that. I feel for Darlene. I know how difficult it must be. I know when my son was on the V.A.C. for wound closure, it was so painful for him to have the nurse come in and rip that stuff off, and then pack it back up. He literally would sweat everytime he heard the door bell ring knowing she was there to do what she had to do. My heart just ached everytime and I grimmaced in a corner of the room, with tears streaming down my cheeks, where he couldn't see me. I would then wipe my eyes and after the nurse would leave I would get him comfortable and he would take his medication and drift off to sleep. When he was a sleep I would watch him and I asked my Mom & Dad to please help him, please be his angels at this time. I so much wanted to have the pain he had so he wouldn't have to go through it. However, I do believe that it made him a better and stronger person for having gone through it.

Somewhere in all of this trial that you, Darlene and Mitchell have gone through, there will be light at the end of the tunnel. I know that Our Lord would not bring all of you this far to just drop everything and say "you take it from here". No way, no how. That is why we have faith. Faith that he is there in good times, bad times and the times in between. He never leaves us without it.

Like I said, that is why we live, while other's just "get by".

[USMCmom]

Jeff...your in my thougts and prayers as is Darlene and Mitch!

[jwil59]

My daughter and I continue to pray for Mitch and all of you. Now and then she'll ask for updates and is thrilled at how far he's come (as am I). Take care, Jeff.


Thank you, and please think your very thoughtfull dayghter for me.

[jwil59]

Jeff: still thinking of Mitch, you and family and praying. There is so much we can't understand and the pain is hard to handle at times despite our prayers. Still, I hope my prayers for Mitch are heard. Mitch is my youngest daughter's age and it probably goes without saying that I sense the challenges ahead.

Jane

Thank you jane. God bless you my friend

[jwil59]

Jeff and Darlene,

One minute and one step at a time with Christ under you, all around you, in front of you, in back of you and most of all inside of you!! Psalms:121 and Psalms 139.

With God all things are possible!

My prayers for both of you.

Carlene

I love the Psalms, thank you carlene

[jwil59]

Jeff and Darlene,

Sorry I haven't been here in a while but I had my own issues of health that I had to deal with. Spent three out of four weekends in May in the hospital and last weekend in bed. Between my Crohn's disease and my lower back problems it has been a real treat. :rolleyes:

However all that aside I have never stopped praying and asking Our Lord to watch over all of you as I knew that Mitchell would be coming home in May.

I hope that all is going well and that as he adjusts and it is an adjustment going from hospital to rehab to home, that things will be at a more settled pace for you and your family. I am sure that it does your heart good to know that he has come this far when that fateful night, that all of us found out what happened, we all hit our knees in prayer, not knowing what the outcome would be.

There has been so much tragedy this year, yet I look at Mitchell and say "Here is our example". You have to have faith when you look at him and know that there truly is a God and that his mercy and our faith in Him are intertwined.

I will continue with you on your journey in good times and in bad. I just wanted you to know that I hadn't forgotten.

God bless you.


I am still praying for your health issues Cali, and that special son of yours too

[jwil59]

Oh people without faith get by, but that is just it, they get by.

Those of us with faith, we live. That is the difference.

I would much rather live, feel the pain, the trials that are set before me and then attempt to hurdle them, then get by any day of the week. Do I fall? You bet I do. All the time. Then I just get up, set that hurdle back on it right side and attempt it again. If I fall again, I go back and do the same.

Faith is such an important part of my life that I can't imagine it not being there. I guess I learned that lesson from my son when he went through all of his stuff almost two years ago. Now I look at him and I wonder in amazement that he has turned out to be such a great young man. My husband and I are very proud of him. He will be going to the community college within the next several month and getting his EMT/Paramedic stuff out of the way and then he will be licensed. Then it is onto CPAT (Candidate Physical Ability Testing) which is really going to put him through the wringer to see if he has what it takes to become a firefighter. His goal is to get into a department by the age of 25. He has done enough reading on line and is on several message boards where there are firefighters and it seems that most departments don't want real young candidates, but those in their mid 20's. I guess it is maturity level is better at that point. In any event he does have a plan set out and I know him well enough to know that he will follow this. I joked with him when the Santa Barbara fires were raging. I said the day I stop watching the fires is when he becomes a fireman. It is true. I will not watch any of that coverage if I know he is out there. It will scare me half to death. My husband was like "Oh you'll watch, cause you will be a mother hen looking for her young". Maybe he is right.

I guess my faith will have to carry me at that time as well. All I know is that when he becomes a fireman, St Florian, the patron saint for fireman, will be hearing a lot from me. :D

You be well my friend. Your faith in Our Lord has been tested time and time again. He has seen you through the really bad points in all of this and he surely will be there every step of the way now. God never leaves anything unfinished. You know that and I know that. I feel for Darlene. I know how difficult it must be. I know when my son was on the V.A.C. for wound closure, it was so painful for him to have the nurse come in and rip that stuff off, and then pack it back up. He literally would sweat everytime he heard the door bell ring knowing she was there to do what she had to do. My heart just ached everytime and I grimmaced in a corner of the room, with tears streaming down my cheeks, where he couldn't see me. I would then wipe my eyes and after the nurse would leave I would get him comfortable and he would take his medication and drift off to sleep. When he was a sleep I would watch him and I asked my Mom & Dad to please help him, please be his angels at this time. I so much wanted to have the pain he had so he wouldn't have to go through it. However, I do believe that it made him a better and stronger person for having gone through it.

Somewhere in all of this trial that you, Darlene and Mitchell have gone through, there will be light at the end of the tunnel. I know that Our Lord would not bring all of you this far to just drop everything and say "you take it from here". No way, no how. That is why we have faith. Faith that he is there in good times, bad times and the times in between. He never leaves us without it.

Like I said, that is why we live, while other's just "get by".

Heaven is our light at the end of the tunnel my friend. Until then we just keep plugging on, doing the best we can to get up from the falls like you say.

God bless you

[Calibabe]

I am still praying for your health issues Cali, and that special son of yours too

Thanks, that just made my day :D

Hope all is well with you and your family as well.

[jwil59]

Thanks, that just made my day :D

Hope all is well with you and your family as well.

We're good thanks

[jwil59]

I think we might have found the right phych therapist for Mitch. We really didn't want a therpaist trained in the ways of the world, if you know what I mean. We had the first meeting today and this guy is going to help us get some structure in the daily routine, exersizes and that sort of stuff. I think he believes that some of the problems we are having at home might be due to boredom on Mitch's part. We didn't learn all that much today on the first vist but hopefully this is a first step to us getting some help in the cognative/physch area. We are encourages.

Thank you all, God bless you

[blazer]

:clap: :)

[doodle5]

Boredom can be a huge part right now, teenagers have boredom. Hopefully the therapist can create ways to use his brain.

My prayers

Carlene

[rhet 2]

I think we might have found the right phych therapist for Mitch. We really didn't want a therpaist trained in the ways of the world, if you know what I mean. We had the first meeting today and this guy is going to help us get some structure in the daily routine, exersizes and that sort of stuff. I think he believes that some of the problems we are having at home might be due to boredom on Mitch's part. We didn't learn all that much today on the first vist but hopefully this is a first step to us getting some help in the cognative/physch area. We are encourages.

Thank you all, God bless you

Now there's still another answer to prayer, yes indeedy!

And first visits are just get-acquainted, like sticking a toe in the water to check the temp before you do a full hard dive into it.

Praying, brother dear.

The Body of Christ, worldwide, past present and future, need your son up and going strong to deal with all the tares and the wheat in his corner of the LORD's harvest.

And you know the LORD never turns loose of what belongs to Him -- especially youngsters like Mitch whom He's claimed for His own.

So, hang tough, as a certain brother in faith has told me a thousand times. The LORD of Lords and KING of Kings is right there with you, in heart and in mind. And so are all your brothers and sisters in the LORD's army. :hug:

[jwil59]

Thank you my dear brothers and sisters. I love you all.

[blazer]

and we love you! All of the wonderful people here are an inspiration to me!

[Claymore]

We are still praying for your family, bro.

[jwil59]

and we love you! All of the wonderful people here are an inspiration to me!


Aint that the truth, the people here can do a soul and body good. It's a special little club we have here

[jwil59]

We are still praying for your family, bro.

I appreciate that my friend. I pray you and yours are well

[jwil59]

Mitch is doing pretty well. He is working hard in therapy and continues to progress. I can see him able to do things that he could not do before. It wasn't long ago that I told you he was able to grasp a cup in one hand to drink. Now he is able to pour his own drinks in a cup from a can or bottle. His hands are still numb (they wsay he might be stuck with that) so certain tasks with his hands are still difficult. He is getting better though slowly but surely. He pretty much gets dressed by himself now except for his shoes. He had his 2nd appointment today with the new phych therapist and that went well. The wife and I were not included in the therapy today and it lasted about an hour and a half. Mitch says he is a smart man and trusts him, which is a huge blessing. All in all things are pretty good although we do have some tiffs at home from time to time. Mitch is still taking all this like a man though, not complaining or moaning about the hand he has been dealt here.

Thank you all for your prayers and support over the past 6 months. I cannot even fathom where we would be without you guys. We love you and God bless you all

[rhet 2]

Mitch is doing pretty well. He is working hard in therapy and continues to progress. I can see him able to do things that he could not do before. It wasn't long ago that I told you he was able to grasp a cup in one hand to drink. Now he is able to pour his own drinks in a cup from a can or bottle. His hands are still numb (they wsay he might be stuck with that) so certain tasks with his hands are still difficult. He is getting better though slowly but surely. He pretty much gets dressed by himself now except for his shoes. He had his 2nd appointment today with the new phych therapist and that went well. The wife and I were not included in the therapy today and it lasted about an hour and a half. Mitch says he is a smart man and trusts him, which is a huge blessing. All in all things are pretty good although we do have some tiffs at home from time to time. Mitch is still taking all this like a man though, not complaining or moaning about the hand he has been dealt here.



Thank you all for your prayers and support over the past 6 months. I cannot even fathom where we would be without you guys. We love you and God bless you all

Good and good and better than good!

I praise the LORD for such solid progress -- and continue praying, especially about the hands. The LORD knows a whole lot more than the docs do -- and can fix what they can't. :pray: and :hug: to you all

[Calibabe]

Mitch is doing pretty well. He is working hard in therapy and continues to progress. I can see him able to do things that he could not do before. It wasn't long ago that I told you he was able to grasp a cup in one hand to drink. Now he is able to pour his own drinks in a cup from a can or bottle. His hands are still numb (they wsay he might be stuck with that) so certain tasks with his hands are still difficult. He is getting better though slowly but surely. He pretty much gets dressed by himself now except for his shoes. He had his 2nd appointment today with the new phych therapist and that went well. The wife and I were not included in the therapy today and it lasted about an hour and a half. Mitch says he is a smart man and trusts him, which is a huge blessing. All in all things are pretty good although we do have some tiffs at home from time to time. Mitch is still taking all this like a man though, not complaining or moaning about the hand he has been dealt here.

Thank you all for your prayers and support over the past 6 months. I cannot even fathom where we would be without you guys. We love you and God bless you all

Jeff,

That is some wonderful news!! :clap::clap: I am so happy that Mitchell is doing so well and that you are able to see those improvements as well. Isn't God great!! Mitchell is his walking, talking testimony to that. It is also a testament that he doesn't grumble about what has happened as well. He has certainly been tested, as well as your whole family has.

You and your wife have done an amazing job with your son. Don't think otherwise. He would not be where he is right now without that support and love. He knows the depth of your love for him. Tiffs are tiffs and should be expected. It is what comes out of those tiffs that matters most.

It has been an honor to be able to pray for your son. Each Mass I have attended I have asked God to keep him close and to help him in what he has to do. I have asked that he give you and Darlene strength to handle the curves that this experience has put you through and you have come through it all with flying colors. I will still keep asking Our Lord to work on the "little things" now.

We love you and your family as well. May Our Lord continue to heal Mitchell.

God bless you.

[jwil59]

Good and good and better than good!

I praise the LORD for such solid progress -- and continue praying, especially about the hands. The LORD knows a whole lot more than the docs do -- and can fix what they can't. :pray: and :hug: to you all

Solid progress indeed. Thank you so much.

I pray you and the bear are well

[jwil59]

Jeff,

That is some wonderful news!! :clap::clap: I am so happy that Mitchell is doing so well and that you are able to see those improvements as well. Isn't God great!! Mitchell is his walking, talking testimony to that. It is also a testament that he doesn't grumble about what has happened as well. He has certainly been tested, as well as your whole family has.

You and your wife have done an amazing job with your son. Don't think otherwise. He would not be where he is right now without that support and love. He knows the depth of your love for him. Tiffs are tiffs and should be expected. It is what comes out of those tiffs that matters most.

It has been an honor to be able to pray for your son. Each Mass I have attended I have asked God to keep him close and to help him in what he has to do. I have asked that he give you and Darlene strength to handle the curves that this experience has put you through and you have come through it all with flying colors. I will still keep asking Our Lord to work on the "little things" now.

We love you and your family as well. May Our Lord continue to heal Mitchell.

God bless you.

We really need those stength prayers as we are still tested from time time. Thank you

My prayers for you and yours as well my friend.

[wonderingrover]

Just wanted to drop a note to let you know my prayers are still with your son.

[jwil59]

Just wanted to drop a note to let you know my prayers are still with your son.

I appreciate that

[jwil59]

Early Thursday morning Mitch and I will be travelling to Atlanta and back for his followup appt. with the docs at Shepherd Center. I am working tonight and will not be getting very much sleep so some prayers for our safe travel will be appreciated.

[EmmanuelGoldstein]

Early Thursday morning Mitch and I will be travelling to Atlanta and back for his followup appt. with the docs at Shepherd Center. I am working tonight and will not be getting very much sleep so some prayers for our safe travel will be appreciated.
You have them, my friend. Here's praying for an excellent report too :)

[THE LIGHT]

Early Thursday morning Mitch and I will be travelling to Atlanta and back for his followup appt. with the docs at Shepherd Center. I am working tonight and will not be getting very much sleep so some prayers for our safe travel will be appreciated.

May it be Your will, Eternal One, our God and the God of our ancestors, that You lead us toward peace, emplace our footsteps towards peace, guide us toward peace, and make us reach our desired destination for life, gladness, and peace. May You rescue us from the hand of every foe along the way, and from all manner of evil that assemble to come to Earth. May You send blessing in our every handiwork, and grant us peace, kindness, and mercy in your eyes and in the eyes of all who see us. May You hear the sound of our supplication, because You are the God who hears prayer and supplications. Blessed are You, Eternal One, who hears prayer.

May God bless you and keep you safe is my sincere prayer!

[rhet 2]

May it be Your will, Eternal One, our God and the God of our ancestors, that You lead us toward peace, emplace our footsteps towards peace, guide us toward peace, and make us reach our desired destination for life, gladness, and peace. May You rescue us from the hand of every foe along the way, and from all manner of evil that assemble to come to Earth. May You send blessing in our every handiwork, and grant us peace, kindness, and mercy in your eyes and in the eyes of all who see us. May You hear the sound of our supplication, because You are the God who hears prayer and supplications. Blessed are You, Eternal One, who hears prayer.

May God bless you and keep you safe is my sincere prayer!

My heart joins yours.

I'd be worried that he hasn't updated yet, except he may be working tonight, as well, in which case, he's got to be totally wiped for lack of sleep. I pray the LORD restore that loss asap.

[blazer]

bump

[jwil59]

Thank you guys very much

Dr Bilskey at Shepherd though Mitch look fabulous. Everything went great and we don't have to go back to him anymore, he wants our local Doc to deal with all the meds and stuff moving forward. We got to spend some time in the ABi unit with some old friends that work there. They were all very impressed and delighted to see Mitch doing so well, most of them even moved to tears of joy.

Thank you all for you prayers and support for this miracle

[Calibabe]

Thank you guys very much

Dr Bilskey at Shepherd though Mitch look fabulous. Everything went great and we don't have to go back to him anymore, he wants our local Doc to deal with all the meds and stuff moving forward. We got to spend some time in the ABi unit with some old friends that work there. They were all very impressed and delighted to see Mitch doing so well, most of them even moved to tears of joy.

Thank you all for you prayers and support for this miracle

YES!!

That is excellent news Jeff. I am so happy that Mitchell is doing so well.

As I have said before, it has been an honor to pray for your son. It is certainly a spiritually uplifting moment, that's for sure. I will continue to keep you and your family in my rosary and I will continue to pray for your family when I am at Mass.

God bless you. :D

[Hadassah]

Thank you guys very much

Dr Bilskey at Shepherd though Mitch look fabulous. Everything went great and we don't have to go back to him anymore, he wants our local Doc to deal with all the meds and stuff moving forward. We got to spend some time in the ABi unit with some old friends that work there. They were all very impressed and delighted to see Mitch doing so well, most of them even moved to tears of joy.

Thank you all for you prayers and support for this miracle


I am in tears. Thanks be to God, from Whom all blessings flow!

[bella-day]

Thank you guys very much

Dr Bilskey at Shepherd though Mitch look fabulous. Everything went great and we don't have to go back to him anymore, he wants our local Doc to deal with all the meds and stuff moving forward. We got to spend some time in the ABi unit with some old friends that work there. They were all very impressed and delighted to see Mitch doing so well, most of them even moved to tears of joy.

Thank you all for you prayers and support for this miracle

Great news!

I'm so happy he is progressing so well.

[curtis123]

Thank you guys very much

Dr Bilskey at Shepherd though Mitch look fabulous. Everything went great and we don't have to go back to him anymore, he wants our local Doc to deal with all the meds and stuff moving forward. We got to spend some time in the ABi unit with some old friends that work there. They were all very impressed and delighted to see Mitch doing so well, most of them even moved to tears of joy.

Thank you all for you prayers and support for this miracle

Praise God.

I'm so glad to hear he is doing well.

[jwil59]

Thank you all for your prayers and responces. Not that much to update at this point. He is still doing pt,ot,and st and aslo the phych therapy with a Christian counselor. All is going well. We still need your prayers though as we still have a long way to go.

Thank you all and God bless you

[blazer]

:pray: :hug:

[rhet 2]

:pray: :hug:

ditto here

[Calibabe]

Thank you all for your prayers and responces. Not that much to update at this point. He is still doing pt,ot,and st and aslo the phych therapy with a Christian counselor. All is going well. We still need your prayers though as we still have a long way to go.

Thank you all and God bless you


Jeff,

You have those prayers my friend, even without asking. I have had, since all of this happend, your son and your family on my prayer list that I have for Mass on Sundays. Also when I do my prayers at home and say my rosary, I keep you all close in prayer. That has been the wonderful experience thoughout all that you and Mitchell and your family have gone through. I always thank Our Lord for all the blessings that He has given to us, for Mitchell's recovery. We had a very scary experience last week at Mass. Two young girls (15 & 14) were crossing the street in front of our church. They wanted to go across the street to the park. Well, evidently a driver going west on Newhall Ave., didn't see them or was distracted by either another car or by the two other occupants in his car, and hit both girls. My son and husband had been standing outside on the side of the church. My son said all of a sudden he heard this "thud" and then he heard someone say "Somebody is down!" My son and my husband took off towards the street. About this time I was inside the church preparing for a meeting (I am the president of the Christian Mothers group of our church) and I went to get a drink. One of the parishoners said to me "Did you hear about the accident?" I said "No, when did it happen?" She said to me "It just happened, two girls got hit" With that I tossed my cup and ran out the door. My husband and son were dealing with one girl and the other girl was laying on the group. I saw her foot and for a minute thought "oh no". Her foot was bloody and the nail was off of her toe, so I braced myself for what I might find as I came around the corner. Thankfully she was conscious and our priest was there with her. I came up around her foot, and asked her if she knew who I was. I was concerned about a closed head injury, especially with her head about an inch from the concrete curb. I asked her if she hit her head and she said no. I then asked her if she knew where she was, and what day it was. She answered all three correctly. Someone called 9-1-1 and I told her that she would hear some sirens and to not be upset. Her father was there but he was in shock, as was her mother, who was on her way to Mass with some of their children (they have a large family). I assured her that everything was fine and that her daughter was in good hands with the fire department. My husband handed me an ice pack and I placed it on her foot, careful not to hit her nail that was hanging on by a piece. The fire department arrived and I told the captain that she was alert and oriented (she knew date, time and place) and that she had not hit her head. The other girl who my son and husband were working on, had hit her head. My husband and son told the firemen what happened and I also spoke with the paramedic as well as to what I observed while tending to the one girl. They seemed appreciative that we had helped. My biggest concern was as I said any closed head injury. Thankfully both girls were released from the hospital later that afternoon. After everyone had gone to the hospital I was talking to my son. He was telling me how everything happened, and then he started to tear up and tell me of how he had to tell the younger brother of the girl I was taking care of what happened. I just hugged him and told him to never, ever lose that feeling when dealing with any patient and that if he did lose that compassion, then he should leave doing what he is doing.

My point is that these two girls should have been hurt much more seriously. Anytime you have a person contact a moving vehicle it usually has tragic consequences. My son attributes it to Our Lord. I do as well. In talking with people who witnessed the accident, the girls flew up in the air about 10 feet. There is no other explanation other then God being there to soften the blow and to keep them both from serious injury. That is also the same loving hand that helped Mitchell. No one could convince me otherwise. :pray:

[jwil59]

Thank you my dear prayer partners.

Also thank God that He chose to intervene in the lives of those two young girls outside cali's Church. Cali I am thinking that young man of yours is goona make a very good fireman.

Mitch is doing ok. We had a very busy weekend grilling and celebrating our nation's birthday with family. We did it up right on saturday and we all ate like pigs.

I didn't have a chance to talk with Mitch's physical therapist on Friday but he tells me that she told him his physical therapy is done, and he will continue with the OT and ST. That just don't seem right to me so we are checking into that today to see what their thoughts are on that. It could be an insurance issue, but I don't think we are at our end yet but I dunno for sure. He and the wife are there as I type this so maybe she can get us some answers. I can stilkl see much room for improvement with his legs and I pray there is some kinda mixup here and he stays in PT for awhile longer.

Thank you for all your prayers and support over the past six and a half months. I cannot even fathom where we would be without you guys. God bless you all

ETA - They are saying that his physidcal therapy is over. We are going to see about getting another perscription from the doctor to continue that though.

[blazer]

:hug: :pray:

[repchick]

Thank you my dear prayer partners.

Also thank God that He chose to intervene in the lives of those two young girls outside cali's Church. Cali I am thinking that young man of yours is goona make a very good fireman.

Mitch is doing ok. We had a very busy weekend grilling and celebrating our nation's birthday with family. We did it up right on saturday and we all ate like pigs.

I didn't have a chance to talk with Mitch's physical therapist on Friday but he tells me that she told him his physical therapy is done, and he will continue with the OT and ST. That just don't seem right to me so we are checking into that today to see what their thoughts are on that. It could be an insurance issue, but I don't think we are at our end yet but I dunno for sure. He and the wife are there as I type this so maybe she can get us some answers. I can stilkl see much room for improvement with his legs and I pray there is some kinda mixup here and he stays in PT for awhile longer.

Thank you for all your prayers and support over the past six and a half months. I cannot even fathom where we would be without you guys. God bless you all

ETA - They are saying that his physidcal therapy is over. We are going to see about getting another perscription from the doctor to continue that though.


I' be praying that he gets the PT he needs. :pray::pray:

[rhet 2]

Jeff,

You have those prayers my friend, even without asking. I have had, since all of this happend, your son and your family on my prayer list that I have for Mass on Sundays. Also when I do my prayers at home and say my rosary, I keep you all close in prayer. That has been the wonderful experience thoughout all that you and Mitchell and your family have gone through. I always thank Our Lord for all the blessings that He has given to us, for Mitchell's recovery. We had a very scary experience last week at Mass. Two young girls (15 & 14) were crossing the street in front of our church. They wanted to go across the street to the park. Well, evidently a driver going west on Newhall Ave., didn't see them or was distracted by either another car or by the two other occupants in his car, and hit both girls. My son and husband had been standing outside on the side of the church. My son said all of a sudden he heard this "thud" and then he heard someone say "Somebody is down!" My son and my husband took off towards the street. About this time I was inside the church preparing for a meeting (I am the president of the Christian Mothers group of our church) and I went to get a drink. One of the parishoners said to me "Did you hear about the accident?" I said "No, when did it happen?" She said to me "It just happened, two girls got hit" With that I tossed my cup and ran out the door. My husband and son were dealing with one girl and the other girl was laying on the group. I saw her foot and for a minute thought "oh no". Her foot was bloody and the nail was off of her toe, so I braced myself for what I might find as I came around the corner. Thankfully she was conscious and our priest was there with her. I came up around her foot, and asked her if she knew who I was. I was concerned about a closed head injury, especially with her head about an inch from the concrete curb. I asked her if she hit her head and she said no. I then asked her if she knew where she was, and what day it was. She answered all three correctly. Someone called 9-1-1 and I told her that she would hear some sirens and to not be upset. Her father was there but he was in shock, as was her mother, who was on her way to Mass with some of their children (they have a large family). I assured her that everything was fine and that her daughter was in good hands with the fire department. My husband handed me an ice pack and I placed it on her foot, careful not to hit her nail that was hanging on by a piece. The fire department arrived and I told the captain that she was alert and oriented (she knew date, time and place) and that she had not hit her head. The other girl who my son and husband were working on, had hit her head. My husband and son told the firemen what happened and I also spoke with the paramedic as well as to what I observed while tending to the one girl. They seemed appreciative that we had helped. My biggest concern was as I said any closed head injury. Thankfully both girls were released from the hospital later that afternoon. After everyone had gone to the hospital I was talking to my son. He was telling me how everything happened, and then he started to tear up and tell me of how he had to tell the younger brother of the girl I was taking care of what happened. I just hugged him and told him to never, ever lose that feeling when dealing with any patient and that if he did lose that compassion, then he should leave doing what he is doing.

My point is that these two girls should have been hurt much more seriously. Anytime you have a person contact a moving vehicle it usually has tragic consequences. My son attributes it to Our Lord. I do as well. In talking with people who witnessed the accident, the girls flew up in the air about 10 feet. There is no other explanation other then God being there to soften the blow and to keep them both from serious injury. That is also the same loving hand that helped Mitchell. No one could convince me otherwise. :pray:

God's Own Hand, indeed. Ps. 91: "He shall give His angels charge over you to bear you up in their hands lest you dash your foot against a stone" -- or in this case, a blasted car! Thank God you were all there to comfort and to aid, for He works through His own children as well as through angels.

Jeff, I'm praying for the continued PT. Cali's boy is not the only young man needed in service to the LORD. :hug:

[jwil59]

Thank you all. God knows my young man is surely still in need of Divine Intervention. I think he might be hitting a wall with the therapy, and that's a shame cause he still has a long way to go. I am forever gratefull to God for all the progress he has made, and I know the fact that he is even alive is only by God's grace. Having said that, he has a long way to go if he ever intends to work and live anywhere near a normal life. He still cannot do stuff like put his shoes on his feet and tie the laces. His short term memory loss does not seem to be improving, and his decesion making ablity is very poor, much worse than before the accident. There's other stuff too and I hate to cry about this stuff all things considered, but it's hard for me not to be concerned. I don't know where we would all be without the One Soverign God looking out for our well being.

My friends we are eternally gratefull for your prayers. God bless you

[bella-day]

You are not crying, you are expressing a real concern for your son's future. It could very well be that Mitch has not hit a wall but a plateau instead. Anyone who's ever dieted can tell you the difference between the two. While a wall maybe impassable a plateau is something that is not. It requires a bit more faith in yourself and demands extra effort but is not unsurmountable by any measure.

You all have remained in my prayers Jeff. God has been with you to guide your and your family to this point in your journey and the road ahead may look more bumpy than it has in the past but he will be there to guide over those bumps and dips as well.

Hang in there my friend.:hug:

[rhet 2]

You are not crying, you are expressing a real concern for your son's future. It could very well be that Mitch has not hit a wall but a plateau instead. Anyone who's ever dieted can tell you the difference between the two. While a wall maybe impassable a plateau is something that is not. It requires a bit more faith in yourself and demands extra effort but is not unsurmountable by any measure.

You all have remained in my prayers Jeff. God has been with you to guide your and your family to this point in your journey and the road ahead may look more bumpy than it has in the past but he will be there to guide over those bumps and dips as well.

Hang in there my friend.:hug:

Truth

"With God, all things are possible" -- and what wall shall stand against Him -- or us when we put our faith to work in His service?

This "plateau" is not so much an obstacle as commanding a mountain to move -- and seeing it happen.

God NEVER despairs of us -- so why we should despair of our own condition beats me.

NO DEFEAT! "We shall overcome" -- for LORD Sabaoth stands beside us, unseen but not unfelt -- and what Christ commands through us shall surely come to pass, for "whatsoever you shall ask in My Name I will do" -- and He never breaks a Promise.

[jwil59]

You are not crying, you are expressing a real concern for your son's future. It could very well be that Mitch has not hit a wall but a plateau instead. Anyone who's ever dieted can tell you the difference between the two. While a wall maybe impassable a plateau is something that is not. It requires a bit more faith in yourself and demands extra effort but is not unsurmountable by any measure.

You all have remained in my prayers Jeff. God has been with you to guide your and your family to this point in your journey and the road ahead may look more bumpy than it has in the past but he will be there to guide over those bumps and dips as well.

Hang in there my friend.:hug:


Thank you. The Lord has sustained us for sure. His grace is sufficent.

I certainly hope it is like you say cause he still has a long way to go

[jwil59]

Truth

"With God, all things are possible" -- and what wall shall stand against Him -- or us when we put our faith to work in His service?

This "plateau" is not so much an obstacle as commanding a mountain to move -- and seeing it happen.

God NEVER despairs of us -- so why we should despair of our own condition beats me.

NO DEFEAT! "We shall overcome" -- for LORD Sabaoth stands beside us, unseen but not unfelt -- and what Christ commands through us shall surely come to pass, for "whatsoever you shall ask in My Name I will do" -- and He never breaks a Promise.

No He don't break any promises. And He promises all things happen for the good of those who love Him, and I do.

[itsrea]

I'm praying for you too Jeff.

[jt314]

Adding my prayers in, as well.

[rhet 2]

Thank you. The Lord has sustained us for sure. His grace is sufficent.

I certainly hope it is like you say cause he still has a long way to go

And which of us does not have a long way to go? For we are all far "short of the glory of God."

Your precious boy will make it, my brother. For the LORD has promised you that he will.

My prayers continue.

You just keep on resisting the temptation to fear. "Hang tough," as a dear brother in Christ puts it. :hug:

[Loyal American]

:pray:

[USMCmom]

Jeff...how very blessed Mitch is to have such a loving mom and dad. It is so very hard to watch our young ones struggle, but as with everything else that he has been through-I know that he will learn to overcome these things. You are all always in my prayers....

[yawnef]

Thank you. The Lord has sustained us for sure. His grace is sufficent.

I certainly hope it is like you say cause he still has a long way to go

Ah, but look at how very far he has come.

I'm fairly new here, so just recently discovered this thread. It has taken awhile to get from page one to here. Add me to the list of folks praying for Mitch and your entire family.

[rhet 2]

Ah, but look at how very far he has come.

I'm fairly new here, so just recently discovered this thread. It has taken awhile to get from page one to here. Add me to the list of folks praying for Mitch and your entire family.

And your prayers are most truly welcome! for did not our LORD say, "Where two or more of you are agreed in what you shall ask, that will I do"? Together, we pound on that Judge's door, begging for Mercy -- and we thrive in the pounding. :hug:

Prayers for Mitch's full recovery continue, dear Jeff.